I had one helluva time finding glasses for my 3rd eye!!Don't forget all that 'SEEING' we need to be doing but don't know how.Agree 110% here.

I had one helluva time finding glasses for my 3rd eye!!Don't forget all that 'SEEING' we need to be doing but don't know how.Agree 110% here.
Of course all instructors aren't equal. Nobody said they are. Not all instructors are equal for each person, tho, either.
Instructing of any sort is the single profession that a person has the absolute least control on the outcome of their endeavor. An instructor is at the mercy of his students.
Your statements suggest that you have very little respect for instructors. "...if the lesson starts going somewhere you don't want, you stop...". Really? You've hired an expert, but think you know better than he does, that makes you a poor student. A lesson is going to progress how the instructor sees fit because his job is to improve overall performance, if he sees you doing something wrong, he should help correct it, even if you think you are doing it well.
As a student, one should go through four steps:
1. Understand the instructor.
2. Doubt the instructor--which is to say that the student should try to prove or disprove what the instructor teaches with an open mind.
3. Practice the lesson.
4. Reevaluate with the instructor.
If any of the parts is a failure, then the entirety is a failure.
1. If you don't understand the instructor, you can't progress. It is as much the fault of the student as it is of the instructor. For instance, I wouldn't go to a masters level music theory class and expect to understand anything when I can't read music or identify a single chord, but the instructor shouldn't allow me to attend, either.
2. If you blindly follow an instructor, you aren't ever going to fully understand the lesson. If you decide that Instructor Q isn't qualified to teach you anything because he didn't win a world championship, you have closed your mind and consequently, Instructor Q won't be able to teach you anything, but that isn't his fault.
3. Needs no explanation.
4. A student's understanding level will change throughout the process.
Quick true story about two guys that did it your way:
Two older guys I know -- who are accomplished 1pocket players -- signed up for a lesson with a pretty well known instructor. They got the same lesson everyone gets from this instructor, to include significant changes to their stance. Never mind that these guys were up there in age, had been playing with significant success the way they play, and who in all likelihood were *never* going to change what had worked for them for decades.
But they listened, they did what the instructor told them to do, and didn't say a word. A couple of months later someone I know saw them a tournament and asked them about the lesson and they said it was the biggest waste of several hundred dollars they'd ever spent on pool.
Personally, I do not respect what and how some guys go about the business of instructing pool players, or at least I'm not interested in what they're selling and have actually turned down *free* instruction from two guys whose names you'd recognize. But on the other hand, I do have great respect for other guys that offer instruction and as previously mentioned have happily paid to be taught by them and throwing in a 25% tip.
The bottomline, for me, is that you should get what you want from any instruction, especially if you're paying for it.
Lou Figueroa
I think this is basically correct, since you do mention the value of a good instructorIMO, there is little that can replace attentive time on the table.
By that I mean being conscious of what you are doing, how you are doing it, and the results that manifest themselves on the table.
Yes, you need to know the physics, geometry, and theory -- books and videos are good in this regard. But then it's up to you to test things out there where the rubber meets the road and to practice, observe, and adjust.
Personally, I'm not so sure an instructor is the best route, especially if they are the kind of instructor that wants to bend you to their model. I see this a lot. Instructors who believe everyone wears a Size 10 shoe. So, IMO, if you seek out an instructor, look for one that will take into consideration your current setup and skills, the amount of time you have to apply to the game, and eschew the guy that tries to mold you into some idealized form of a player that you will never, ever achieve.
Play, observe, adjust, repeat.
Lou Figueroa
Yeah, that isn't what I said, the instructor didn't work on what they needed.
I think this is basically correct, since you do mention the value of a good instructor
When we consider the thousands of hours of play and practice we go through, much of that is on your own. So unless you have a world class coach as a Siamese twin it’s really up to you to experiment and reflect because no one else be around often enough to point out why a shot was missed or where you made a bad decision in a run out.
But I also being coachable can be talent in of itself lol. Some folks are very good at taking direction and applying feedback, and others can be quite stubborn. (I lean towards the latter but endeavour to be the former!)
But, but, the instructor is the hired expert.
Lou Figueroa
Learning how to learn is one of life’s greatest achievements. We need help from others who know more, and we need to let others be smarter than us. We also need to be grateful for either God’s blessing, or alternatively, just luck for having the opportunity to allow for learning in the first place (depending on if you are religious or not).
There never exists a self-made man.
Pool is no exception.
Pull your big boy pants on. If you can't comprehend that I said an instructor should fix what the player needs fixing, or can't figure out that means lessons should be tailored to the person, you aren't capable of having this discussion.
I think you are just looking for a flight. I'm not jb. Your mo is too familiar.
Bye.
I agree 100% with your last sentence. But shouldn't the player(s) getting the lesson know up front exactly what the lesson will include, how long it will last, and how much moola? If the instructor says he'll be working on the foundation with stance among other things, right there is an opening to say "Thanks, but no thanks" without flushing the money down the toilet.Quick true story about two guys that did it your way:
Two older guys I know -- who are accomplished 1pocket players -- signed up for a lesson with a pretty well known instructor. They got the same lesson everyone gets from this instructor, to include significant changes to their stance. Never mind that these guys were up there in age, had been playing with significant success the way they play, and who in all likelihood were *never* going to change what had worked for them for decades.
But they listened, they did what the instructor told them to do, and didn't say a word. A couple of months later someone I know saw them a tournament and asked them about the lesson and they said it was the biggest waste of several hundred dollars they'd ever spent on pool.
The bottomline, for me, is that you should get what you want from any instruction, especially if you're paying for it.
lol, a very thoughtful, logical argument.
Please stay out of my thread if you can’t hang and just want to issue insults ;-)
Lou Figueroa
you’re no JB
I agree 100% with your last sentence. But shouldn't the player(s) getting the lesson know up front exactly what the lesson will include, how long it will last, and how much moola? If the instructor says he'll be working on the foundation with stance among other things, right there is an opening to say "Thanks, but no thanks" without flushing the money down the toilet.
If the instructor doesn't say anything up front, the responsibility is on the player to ask what is going to be covered and how.
I agree 100% with your last sentence. But shouldn't the player(s) getting the lesson know up front exactly what the lesson will include, how long it will last, and how much moola? If the instructor says he'll be working on the foundation with stance among other things, right there is an opening to say "Thanks, but no thanks" without flushing the money down the toilet.
If the instructor doesn't say anything up front, the responsibility is on the player to ask what is going to be covered and how.
Seems kinda obvious, doesn't it. It would be like calling a plumber and being angry that he wouldn't fix your electrical issues.
It should if somebody takes the lead up front. The lesson getters should tell the lesson giver "this is what I want and what I'm looking for" as well as "this is what I don't want", especially if they're long-time players in many pool room wars.Sure, but I don’t think that’s the way it always goes.
Lou Figueroa