I'm not a pervert or child molester.cigardave said:Doesn't the catholic church have bishops???... and aren't some of those perverts and child molesters??? lol
I'm not a pervert or child molester.cigardave said:Doesn't the catholic church have bishops???... and aren't some of those perverts and child molesters??? lol
I'm not trying to insult you but that line is the most ignorant line I've ever heard in my life. Absolutely if everyone is doing something you should base your actions on it. I'm not saying do as they do....there is a difference again I'm not saying do as they do.JoeW said:Becasue everyone else does it does not mean that one should base their actions on it -- whatever it is.
Congrats on your found success and beating the odds. This does mean that your actions are however based on the unsavory actions of others. I appreciate what you have accomplished. My original thoughts weren't entirely directed to you.JoeW said:"Its in every sporting event and every facet of life. Pick anyone of your favorite teams and I promise you they cheat wether caught or not to gain any edge or advantage possible."
A lady told me the best definition of "rationalize" that I have ever heard -- Rational lie -- sounds good, won't fly. Because everyone else does it does not mean that one should base their actions on it -- whatever it is.
Oh - and about arrogant, high and mighty and all that -- well I grew up on the streets, in orphanages and as a ward of the state. I guess I would be considered successful by many people and none of it based on any sort of unethical conduct. I feel that I owe society big time and give back in as many ways as I can. That begins with a career that emphasized working with the arguably worst people in society -- prison inmates.
Sounds like you and I are one the same page but somewhat different view points.JoeW said:“Absolutely if everyone is doing something you should base your actions on it.”
Well – we have a bit of a semantic argument here. The actions of others certainly affect one’s behavior. And I agree that one must take these actions into account. However, what makes us the people we are is in our refusal to act as others do. Consider the wars we have become involved in, the criminals we must react to. We establish our own moral compass and act by what we consider civilized rules of conduct. This is true even to the extent that we will punish our own people who do not follow our way of life.
My argument is that one must identify their own set of values in life, and pool is a major part of my life right now. These values should be consistent with our overall values and we should not be affected by some sub-culture that adheres to antithetical values. It follows then, that one will “hang out” where the values are like minded. I can’t do away with grubby bars that cater to alcoholics. I can avoid and not recommend such places. This same argument applies to the game / sport of pool.
My opinion is not based on some elevated perception of the game but is an attempt to influence my peers not to accept such behavior. That is, as you point out, my reaction to the real world.
we look in our own mirror and have to live with what is reflected there! However, we do need to be aware of others choices in life and how not to allow them to affect ours.JoeW said:“Absolutely if everyone is doing something you should base your actions on it.”
Well – we have a bit of a semantic argument here. The actions of others certainly affect one’s behavior. And I agree that one must take these actions into account. However, what makes us the people we are is in our refusal to act as others do. Consider the wars we have become involved in, the criminals we must react to. We establish our own moral compass and act by what we consider civilized rules of conduct. This is true even to the extent that we will punish our own people who do not follow our way of life.
My argument is that one must identify their own set of values in life, and pool is a major part of my life right now. These values should be consistent with our overall values and we should not be affected by some sub-culture that adheres to antithetical values. It follows then, that one will “hang out” where the values are like minded. I can’t do away with grubby bars that cater to alcoholics. I can avoid and not recommend such places. This same argument applies to the game / sport of pool.
My opinion is not based on some elevated perception of the game but is an attempt to influence my peers not to accept such behavior. That is, as you point out, my reaction to the real world.
bsmutz said:I have to say that I don't like posts like this (just a personal thing). The OP was asking people who "cheat" to step forward and say why they play. It is very obvious that he has a low opinion of this kind of person, so anyone who steps into the breach is going to get flamed. I have to admit that this thread didn't get as ugly as others have that started by attacking a group of people up front. If I were someone who cheated to win at pool, I wouldn't feel comfortable admitting it in this thread.
NateSchoepf said:Why do so many pool players think it is OK or Part of the Game to Cheat, Shark, or do whatever it takes to win??? ...
NateSchoepf said:One thing I heard, and please let me know if this is wrong,
when the IPT first started or there first tournament, Kevin T.(whom I hate) was offering an extra $1000 if the player made a bank shot on the eight ball to win the game, now I heard that once a match was pretty much decided players were making deals to only go for banks on the eight so they could "win" more money. If this is true, what does that say about pool players at any level??
RunoutalloverU said:One thing I heard, and please let me know if this is wrong,
when the IPT first started or there first tournament, Kevin T.(whom I hate) was offering an extra $1000 if the player made a bank shot on the eight ball to win the game, now I heard that once a match was pretty much decided players were making deals to only go for banks on the eight so they could "win" more money. If this is true, what does that say about pool players at any level??
This is 100 percent right. I was there for the tourney. It was one of the first qualifiers for 2 of the 150 tour card holders. This particular one was held at Hard Times in Bellflower. Every major player was there that wasn't already a member. Ortmann and Orcullo ended up the winners. But yes they took the deal off the table ruining it for everyone when they found out that players were making "deals." Although personally I dont know what the big deal was, I mean it doesnt make sense. Put the offer out, and if a couple of guys want to say we both got to bank it, whats the difference?