There needs to be a resource for guys like you and guys like me to link up and play games.
The caveat is said resource would need some way to weed out all the weird people you might not necessarily want in your home
Nyquil said: "Downside for me is I play by myself most of the time since my wife isn't into the game. That's the only thing I miss about the pool hall scene.
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Soyale said: "There needs to be a resource for guys like you and guys like me to link up and play games. The caveat is said resource would need some way to weed out all the weird people you might not necessarily want in your home"
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Addressing this to Nyquil + Soyale and posters in posts numbers 51, 52, 55, 63, and 65 who expressed similar "link up with other regional players" thoughts. Some of you might be interested in reading about the
very effective, easy and pleasurably rewarding solution I once came up with (in 1992) :
I installed a great Diamond 9-footer in the finished basement of my then-*extremely* rural New England home. There were only two pool rooms in the whole state (VT) -- one was an approx. 90-minute round-trip drive, the other a little over two hours round-trip driving. And both could be not only longish, but very unpredictable,
hazardous drives in cases of sudden driver-blinding rainstorms (with power-lines-down river floods) that were possible year-round, and I knew there would have been prohibitive snow/ice storms in winters (fatal accidents on icy roads).
There were however, dozens of villages, hamlets and low-population towns within a radius of just 25 or so, miles around me. I don't smoke or drink myself, so I wasn't a very good fit for the area's 4 or 5 small beer bars. I was very aware though, that folks of all ages were very friendly, who deeply knew -- and with good reason -- greatly
trusted everyone else.
So, with that in mind, on a hunch, I placed an inexpensive small ad in the leading regional newspaper and included a good headline and four lines of text conveying that I'd enjoy meeting and having some regular sessions of Straight Pool, Eight-Ball or Nine-Ball with any local player who loves pool and "who might love playing on a 9-foot table". New, top-quality home table was mentioned as well.
I ran the classified ad for two weeks and quickly heard from four differently-skilled locals who were overjoyed with the opportunity. One of the "best of the best" contacts made
me overjoyed. He was an aging, energetic lifelong 14.1 player who had a hard time meeting anyone who really knew the game in any depth. He had a multiply-witnessed lifetime practice run of
244 and a beautiful Mosconi/Jimmy Moore-like slip stroke. He had won numerous state titles in New England-wide Elks inter-club tournaments against very advanced players, and at age 84 would regularly run 30 or 40 at will, with short position rack navigation, rarely more than a tip of english, on my tight pocket Diamond after he got the feel of it. He'd spot me 20 on our usual 100-point matches and emerged as winner 75% of the time.
His eventual bad health made driving difficult and actually quite illegal for him. I did get most of the 8-, 9-ball guys very interested in improving their overall skills via a lot of 14.1 with me and the eventual 5 other locals I met directly or indirectly from my ad. Two of them later bought home tables and we'd travel to each other's homes. I became very close friends with the guys and their families.
So . . . pleasing and surprising results all around, and not a single thing ever damaged or "lifted" from my home. With
due diligence, this daring-sounding approach might help a few AZBers interested in meeting interested local players. At first I'd always very tangentially ask about people we might know in common and would soon hear about where they worked, or attended school, and who they were related to. Trustworthy locals were never hesitant about casual, subtly reassuring (to me) conversation like that.
Arnaldo