I am not going to disagree with you on that regard and I get that we build memories incorrectly in our minds often times. I was just trying to highlight I could play well enough at one time and am working on growing that direction the best I can and appreciate everyone taking their time to give insight and help.
Seemed like 9 ball was the most popular game back then as well, which has fallen to a less popular game now.
I'm in a similar situation in that I quit for about 10 years and then started again regularly and then quit during covid for 3 years due to lack of time/opportunity to play.
An important thing to remember is that your strategy when you could play better is not necessarily your best strategy now. For example, breaking out problem balls early is a sound strategy if you still have an overwhelmingly large chance of running out. If you are likely to dog a shot here and there, then you can end up removing the trouble and giving your opponent an easy out.
The people who are pointing out patterns to you do not know how you used to play and just see someone who tries to get out when it is too risky. In other words, you don't play as good as you used to and your perception of what you can run out is not inline with reality RIGHT NOW.
When I was coming back I was trying to run out every single table. Within reason. Because I needed to get back into that rhythm. People called me stupid every week but at the end of the session I was always in the top 3 for top shooter (non-handicapped). Did I lose a lot of games I should have? Absolutely. But by playing loose and letting the horses run a little, I got back in the groove a lot sooner.
This won't work if you don't have a pretty high gear to kick into. It sounds like you do, though.