Anti-social as a professional term doesn't mean quite what it seems to. I would say it means "not fitting with the rest of the herd and relating to them closely". I took the standard MMPI test awhile back, think I remember the initials right. After the first three sections that I answered pretty honestly I decided I was being a little too hardline and moderated my responses in the last section. As a result the report only said I was anti-social three times instead of four.
What it really meant wasn't that I was a danger to society but that I didn't look to others for an affirmation of my worth, I looked to myself. When a decision is to be made I weigh all the information available, listen to advice, but ultimately I make the decisions I have to live with not somebody else.
I'm not a herd animal. Sometimes the herd forms around me but I never seek a herd to join. I think that is true of almost all long term individual competitors in any activity. In pool you can't be wondering if the other player is going to be upset with you if you play a great safety or if some railbirds will think it is a low class move, the goal is to win inside the rules and inside your own ethics. Others can like it or not like it, I am most concerned with my own opinion of myself. I am self-centered, self governing, self reliant, and make no bones about it. That makes me anti-social according to the tests.
Hu
`Pool, when played "right", is a game of concentration. That lends itself quite well to introverts. They can enjoy the game, but don't have to socialize with others much, if at all. It's a perfect outlet for them. They can be around others, but not have to socialize.
Some extroverts always hamper their game by socializing too much. They tend to talk when they should be shutting up and concentrating, and then they get all upset when they play like garbage. The "smart" extroverts, know when to talk, and when not to.
Basically, pool gets a lot of both types of people.
What are you on the Meyers Briggs Hu?
I wonder how the personality types match up with pool players. I am an INTP according to the test. I wonder if that stands for "In the Pocket" ?
I played for a living for over 20yrs and can say a hustler is like a actor and has to play what ever part the situation calls for. It was called ruff hustling,mainly bar action at that time. I played my part while on the road but could dis-connect from the hustling/acting when I got home.Some I knew couldn't and would keep up the con/acting around everyone. They turned into that person. Its really sad to see a old hustler who has done it all his life,is over 70 who still never talks to anyone without thinking about how to beat them.To me the action spots where players gathered was always tuffer but always better than ruff hustling. Earl Kellum got me to start going to tournaments and i can say it was much better even though it seemed like giving your speed away in a match was stupid ,so i found it hard to try in tournaments,more or less layed down and tryed to match up with people to gamble. I think living a life like that will make most anti-social because it was a break from the part you had to play. Think about it a player on the road will meet more people in a year than most will in a life time. I hated to here of my old road partner passing but anyone who knew Earl i have a great hustle story we laid down in south Tx about 25 yrs ago if anyone wants to hear it.
I want to hear it.I played for a living for over 20yrs and can say a hustler is like a actor and has to play what ever part the situation calls for. It was called ruff hustling,mainly bar action at that time. I played my part while on the road but could dis-connect from the hustling/acting when I got home.Some I knew couldn't and would keep up the con/acting around everyone. They turned into that person. Its really sad to see a old hustler who has done it all his life,is over 70 who still never talks to anyone without thinking about how to beat them.To me the action spots where players gathered was always tuffer but always better than ruff hustling. Earl Kellum got me to start going to tournaments and i can say it was much better even though it seemed like giving your speed away in a match was stupid ,so i found it hard to try in tournaments,more or less layed down and tryed to match up with people to gamble. I think living a life like that will make most anti-social because it was a break from the part you had to play. Think about it a player on the road will meet more people in a year than most will in a life time. I hated to here of my old road partner passing but anyone who knew Earl i have a great hustle story we laid down in south Tx about 25 yrs ago if anyone wants to hear it.
I played for a living for over 20yrs and can say a hustler is like a actor and has to play what ever part the situation calls for. It was called ruff hustling,mainly bar action at that time. I played my part while on the road but could dis-connect from the hustling/acting when I got home.Some I knew couldn't and would keep up the con/acting around everyone. They turned into that person. Its really sad to see a old hustler who has done it all his life,is over 70 who still never talks to anyone without thinking about how to beat them.To me the action spots where players gathered was always tuffer but always better than ruff hustling. Earl Kellum got me to start going to tournaments and i can say it was much better even though it seemed like giving your speed away in a match was stupid ,so i found it hard to try in tournaments,more or less layed down and tryed to match up with people to gamble. I think living a life like that will make most anti-social because it was a break from the part you had to play. Think about it a player on the road will meet more people in a year than most will in a life time. I hated to here of my old road partner passing but anyone who knew Earl i have a great hustle story we laid down in south Tx about 25 yrs ago if anyone wants to hear it.
This is one of the best threads I've read here in a while. An interesting premise. Does the nature of the game shape people into a certain behavior or does it just attract people already with a certain behavior?
I kinda think a little of both.
Good thread.