[quoteAgain, I'm sensitive to the troubles smokers have with their habit. I just don't wanna have to take a shower when I come home from a bar, and put my clothes in a trash bag until it's laundry time.
I think smoker's antipathy towards the ill effect their habit has on others is a psychological side effect of the addiction. I'll explain.
Smokers KNOW what they do is bad for them. They tell themselves that almost every single day. Sometimes multiple times per day.
The physical addiction causes them to badly want the next cigarette anyways.
The mind is getting multiple conflicting inputs.
1. Cigarettes are bad for me
2. I really want cigarettes badly.
3. I make other people stink when I smoke around them. This makes me feel bad.
4. I really want cigarettes badly
5. Cigarettes are too damned expensive
6. I really want cigarettes badly
The mind does not like being in a state of ongoing uncertainty. When put in a state of continued conflict or uncertainty, the mind will "make up" stuff that does not necessarily make sense, and then continue to reinforce these false "truisms".
In these circumstances, at a subconcious level, the mind tells the person:
1.It's okay to smoke, my grandpa lived to be 90, smoking 30 packs/day
2. I deserve it
3. Non smoking jack@sses are just busybodies, and cna't mind their business
4. Hey, we all gotta spend our money, it hsould be on something we enjoy
Etc..etc...etc..
This caused an interesting psychological effect. The subconcious mind works so many hours each day reinforcing these negative thought patterns, that eventually, the negative thought patterns and ambivalence towards others becomes more pronounced.
The smoker starts flicking his finished cigarette out the window, not caring who has to pick it up
The smoker becomes less likely to open the door for someone else going into a store
The smoker becomes more snappy with others in their day to day life.
These are just generalizations, but a few studies have shown that smokers tend to be, as a group, just a little bit more rude to their fellow man.
I hope this does a little to explain why a lot of smokers simply don't care what effect their habit has on others.
Russ[/QUOTE]
So does the " C player " mean cigarette ?