Fart sniffer said:
Read this on the homepage and it kind of made me mad, if I was his opponent I would be furious.
"If I ever play like that again, I quit!" he said after the match.
"It was hard to control the white ball out there and my confidence started to drop. If it was any other player out there, I'd be on my way home."
Do these statements irk anyone else?
I don't care for these comments at all. The only possible interpretation would be "I played my worst and he still couldn't beat me, yet anybody else could have" and whether it's true or not, it's tactless to say it.
To communicate skillfully and tactfully, one must take into account the possible interpretations of what one says before speaking.
At least by my standards, Raj owes Takenaka an apology.
Not twenty minutes ago, I was watching Seinfeld and Kramer said congratulations to a woman on the street. She asked why, and Kramer said "You're pregnant, aren't you?" and, of course, she wasn't pregnant, just overweight. The illogic of his comment lies in the fact that Kramer needed to consider the possible outcomes of his comment before making it. He didn't and the result was an unintentional, but undeniable, insult.
Perhaps Raj was also guilty of an unintentional, but undeniable, insult to Takenaka, but the fact remains that he made an inappropriate remark.