Everything is about me me me me me me me........
Cry some more, or become more patient.
I can take your opinion of forcing slow shooting on someone else and turn it around. Why should you be allowed to force what your opponent perceives as fast shooting on them?
Try to realize you're not the only one in the world, most people don't give two shits about your desk job, but you'd like them to be considerate of it, so why not try being considerate of the fact they may want to take their time and shoot the correct shot?
Because the longer you stand over a shot the more likely it is that the demons will take over and you'll miss.