I think I answered this. If only steel is contacting the wood or phenolic, then the energy transmittance will be through the steel. However, if you make a joint that has significant wood/wood intimate contact, then the transmittance of energy is significantly through the wood. This is what Tim Scruggs discovered.
I never once implied or hinted at this, but I could see how you were reading it no matter what I wrote.
I wrote something about tight tolerances? What in the world are you reading?
I've wrote that the feel of the energy transmittance is based on the intimate contact of the wood. In Layani's case, it's intimate contact of phenolic on phenolic. In Schuler's case, it's his radial compression pilot fitting. In Lambros' case, it's his axial compression Ultra Joint. All address as much intimate contact as possible.
If a cuemaker can make a steel joint, but have the energy transmittance not be dependent on the steel joint, then he will have a cue whose joint doesn't ping like steel.
That's it. Very simple. That's why Schon and Scruggs (two cuemakers you put in your thread) do NOT have hits that are like other SS joints, a joint that YOU generalized as crappy hitting.
YOU were stating "lots of people think schons are very good hitting cues, but they all have piloted stainless joints. stainless is crap imo.." Well... I'm tellling you the obvious answer to your implied question. I thought you truly wanted to know. But, by your reading things that I didn't write, apparently not.
Fred