the man I could never beat

michael4

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My personal story of a great pool player……(sorry its long)

My parents divorced when I was a baby, and I met my dad for the first time when I was 19. Turns out we both had a strong love for pool (as well as other things in common). We started hanging out at his favorite dive bar right away, and he was giving me tips about pool. Of course in those days I was an ignorant banger and most of his tips didn’t sink in. How very good he played didn’t sink in either, because he could have beat me left handed back then, and he was sandbagging big time to make me feel better (I figured out years later).

Eventually, I got married and had kids, and pool took a back seat in my life for many years, but I did hear from my mom, that back when I was born (the 1960’s), he put food on the table by playing pool and poker. Dad later explained that he worked in a snooker hall when he was young and played there every day. Transiting to pool was a piece of cake for him.

Fast forward about 20 years, and now I have a pool table in my house…..I’m getting better fast, but my dad is getting older and his eyesight is fading….He can still beat me, but he now has to “bear down” (in his words) to beat me…….One of my life’s goals is to beat my dad at pool someday, but it has to occur soon, because he is getting frail. My dad never had much money, but he always had a crisp $100 bill hidden in his wallet. He told me that's pool money if someone wants to gamble. He taught me not to gamble however.

My dad quit playing pool for good a couple years ago (bad eyes and a bad hip)…..He had his retirement party at his favorite pool hall.

I never did get my chance to beat him, and maybe its much better that way……I prefer to remember his as always a better player than me, a better man than me. He passed away this morning. Love you dad.
(Pic #1, dad in the 1960's in LA), (Pic #2 dad right before he stopped playing)
 

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Well written tribute to your dad. Remember the good times and all he taught you.
 
Sorry for your loss. You do, however, have some great memories and your Dad will live on in your heart and mind.
 
Nice story Mike. The memories you have with your father stay with you forever. My son and I play 3 to 4 hour sessions twice a week at the poolroom. We've been doing this for 4 years now. Him having memories of the time we spend together is always in the back of mind. May your Dad rest peacefully.
 
What a nice way to remember your Dad. I am sorry for your loss.

It's clear that he put in some time at the table. Check out that closed bridge.
 
Your father has the bridge hand of a good player, Michael.
Rest In Peace

My father lived to be 85....so I can’t complain...but I’d like to...
...you probably feel the same.

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Mike...What a great story! You never mentioned that when I came to your house several years ago to work with you. You will always have great memories to draw from! Very sorry for your loss. Seems like your dad lived a full life! :thumbup:

Scott Lee
http://poolknowedge.com
 
What a fantastic, priceless tribute to accompany your many memories, Mike.

You must be very proud to have helped usher in some of the finest days and hours in your father’s latter years and life - thank you for sharing such a touching experience - I wish had had the same opportunity.

My hat is off and my heart is out to you, sir.

~ K.


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Sorry to hear about your father. Thanks for posting the story.

Like a couple others mentioned, I noticed his bridge before anything else. I have played pool for half a century and the first thing I notice about a "player" is their bridge. I can tell that he spent a lot of time at the table.

God bless to you and family.

Aloha.
 
Very touching, I enjoyed the read very much. So sorry for your and your family's loss. May he rest in peace and hit him straight in the afterlife.

Dave
 
I am sorry for your loss, but am very glad to hear your story. Thanks for sharing.
 
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