Sorry, very long but I don't know how else to get my point across...
9balllvr said:
why not do what you would do in any other tournament, get a referee to oversee the match. in life you deal with bullies, how do you handle it? as far as the spectator comment, while playing, the spectator shouldn't even be a thought. is it a "perceived rudeness" to the spectator because i know when i play, the last thing i want to focus on is the person watching me (although sometimes we do) - if you really had an issue as a spectator and could not see past someone's moment of weakness during play, take the time to write the WPBA and notify them of the behavior. stop someone while walking through the halls and let them know to watch the player in the future.
put it into perspective - if you have a desk mate in an office setting that annoys you or does something that is rude, do you report it or just continue to do your job? most people that i know, realize it is part of the work force to have to deal with different personalities (good or nasty) and brush it off. you never know what someone is going through on any given day.
9balllvr,
The WPBA Great Lakes Classic was the first time I attended the WPBA event-I was a spectator. I had never won a qualifier, so this was my first experience and since I am not a WPBA member, I will speak freely...But I like to clarify up front that I have utmost respect for the organization and am a huge fan! So, I was very excited about the opportunity and overall had a ball!
However, this is where the infamous "Ellerby - Elbow-gate" incident had occurred. I did not witness this event, and till this date, it is just an hearsay...
It's easier to say that Jennifer C. should had called a referee from the beginning of the match and have him sat there the whole time since her opponent had history of being rude and dishonest on the table... (this is also hearsay. I do not know for certain how Sarah E. is personally) But with each rounds with several matches going on at once, there are only "two" official referees (Mark Wilson and Steve Tipton) to oversee all the close hits, wracking the balls for few troublesome tables when requested, keeping the audience informed and what ever more... You get the idea! So you can't tie up one of the only two referee for one match...
There were also volunteers working the "shot clock". WPBA has a rule that any match who doesn't clear certain number of games (sorry I forgot the number) within an hour goes on the clock for both players. Even if it was a result of extensive safety play. However, this rule wasn't always consistent since they were at the mercy of having the volunteers available for the match...And overall they just kept the time since they are not qualified referees.
When I was questioning about the rudeness to the spectators on my previous reply, I wasn't worrying about the players having to fade the rude spectator. I was referring to the fact a certain WPBA member - ok, in this case, Sarah E. was being rude to the spectator!
Maybe this guy fidgeted to much or whatever he did, must had irritated her. She got up from her shooting stance and glared at him for few seconds and went back down to shoot.
Ok, I'm a player too and I know that there are some people whom just lack the audience sense and unintentionally sharks you, I KNOW! But any other pros who got sharked usually got up and some even with an apologetic smile, politely asks the audience "can you please not move?"
She didn't say anything but just glared... I think that was rather rude. Especially those tickets to the WPBA matches were NOT CHEAP! I don't want to spend a lot of money to be treated like a dirty mop water...I don't think the guy even knew what he did...
Another time, during a TV match...OK same person here... Believe it or not, I am not trying to pick on her but I did not witness anyone else to come off rude... so here goes.
During Sarah E's shot, Steve T. had to be very close to see if her shirt may commit a foul. Sarah had to stretch over the ball... However, the TV crew either didn't know why Steve was there or didn't care because one of the camera crew hissed at Steve to get out of the camera's view...
Well she missed the shot and got up and shot a nasty look at the camera crew who was just doing his job...
To stop someone and "warn" them to watch the player in the future... Most of people already KNEW about someone's rudeness and openly spoke about it. I just happen to witness it first hand...
However, now according to the "new" WPBA Code of Conduct which (you joked about ) being written by someone who was very familiar with the Legal Talk... forbids WPBA member talking about anything negative and put everything in WRITING to the board.
My question was if only written form of complaint will be acknowledged, then must you wait until the match is over to file the complaint or do you stop the match and write a complaint?
I personally don't put up with people trying to bully me... I usually confront them face to face.
S.