Jim,
You are correct. Fear can be either debilitaing or a great motivation.
I have always played sports with a sense or fear. Certainly not with fear of harm or fear of the opponents. But fear of myself. I play scared. Scared that I might mess up & let my team mates down. Bottom line is I care & I take my participation seriously.
I've seen many a confident, cocky, athlete that is full of arrogance screw up & act like it was not their fault & they did not do anything wrong. They could not care less. They are only concerned with thier image, both self & public.
Oooops!:ignore: Sorry, arrogance & the like are off topic.
In pool, when that fear comes up, I simply take a few deep breathes & say to myself, 'you can do this, don't blow it, take you time & just get it done', or something llike that.
Fear...It can be a good thing. After all, it is a natural instinct. How can it be a bad thing?
Best Regards,