I applaud you for seeking help!!!
But, you really need to provide info about you! How tall are you? Small hands or big hands? Novice or semi-pro? Price range? 11 to 12 mm ferrulle limits selection greatly, is this flexible?
With the above info missing, I can only tell you what my 30 years of experience and preferences have told me about a quality cue!
Brands I like:
Ted Harris/Capone/Cognesenti/Bobby Hunter/Kent Davis
Ferrulle tip combo:
LBM/Melamine & HARD TIP i.e. Superpro brand!
Taper:
SouthWest spec .
.835" joint diam.
1.060" A-joint diam. ( bottom of the forearm ).
1.248" Bottom of the cue .
Ted Harris spec.
.842” at the joint, 1.040"-1.050" at the A-joint, and 1.245”-1.265” at the butt plate.
Bumper:
Pop in style only! No bolt or screw in bumpers! Makes back heavy!
Cored:
Yes
Pin:
3/8 radial
Length:
5 foot 2 = 56 inch
5 foot 9 = 57 inch
6 foot 2 = 58 inch
6 foot 5 = 59/60 inch
Weight:
I prefer 3.8+ oz. shafts with13mm.
I prefer the butt of the cue to be 15 oz. or very close.
19 to 19.5
Joint type:
Wood to wood
Balance Point:
Balance is SUPER important in my opinion. Best tip i can give on balance, is to hold the butt only in your hand! it should not be tipping forward or backward. The butt should be neutrally balanced in your hand while holding it in the grip area!!!
Armed with the info above, you can locate or commission a cue that will play jam up. FYI, Cored cues minimize weight, add strength and prevents warpage when using laminated maple cores and handles. I suggest that if the cue has points cut in? insist that the maker or builder do one additional step while building the forearm. Core the forearm AGAIN to further minimize the forearm weight. Hardwoods like ebony and cocobolo commonly used in cues are EXTREMELY heavy woods and distort balance. If going merrywidow style one coring is all that is needed. Best of shopping to you!
KD