I love this post! Others had commented on another recent thread that there are punchers and spinners...
One thought if I may? And please take it in the kind and respectful spirit in which it is intended. If someone gives a few hours with video and etc. to a student and doesn't meet with them again, it may because they have dramatically improved. As I like to joke around, "I'm not a chiropractor and you won't need to see me three times a week until you die. If we find a good change to your game today..."
Most of those sometimes one-time lesson teachers, including me, also follow-up with students online these days, so no one is really left alone.
Again, I loved your post. Thanks.
Thank you very much Matt, I learn from you and others on this site. I am never offended and appreciate a civil discussion. I have thick skin.
I hope I didn't insult, offend, or disrespect anyone, it was not my intention.
Video has its place for sure, as do one time lessons. I could have worded my post a little differently; I have a big foot and sometimes a bigger mouth, insert foot.
My approach is a little different. I have had students ask where the video is, I answer, we don't use it now, we use it when you look like a player, not before. I have used it in the early stages, never again.
They had lessons and video was used. I have witnessed these lessons, they paid big money. They see their forearm and elbow out of wack, grip too short, head is twisted, alignment is a mess, etc. They see negatives and dwell on the negative. These students are advertising as recognized instructors.
We begin training and what do you think a large majority of them do right out of the gate, they turn their head, look at their feet, hips, and swing arm, that's what the video told them to focus on. They look like a mess, the video didn't help them it hurt them; they are tight, so mentally wrapped up in the video they can't find the natural or have any idea how to find it. Dwelling on the perfect form and no idea how to get there, but they have video.
I am not saying this is always the case and video doesn't work for some, it's what I have encountered more than once. I will use video as a positive instead of a negative. I am 100% in agreement with visuals, especially positive ones.
During our first training session we are able to get these little problems repaired, they are no longer turning their head, they are feeling it, losing the robotics they started with.
Their fundamentals and mechanics are looking better; they feel good and convey it to me in words and a smile. That is very rewarding to me, especially when you see them feeling it. I work hard on bringing out their natural.
They will say, I see what you mean, I feel it I don't have to see it. When they leave a session like that most times I am penciling them in for weekly or bi-weekly sessions.
I have had many come through the door after one session never to be seen again. These are beginners or players that are looking for the Holy Grail. I have a 15 minute chat before we begin, my first words are, There Is No Holy Grail, this is work, we train hard, prepare to work hard or you are throwing your money away, it's your money to do with as you like.
If they want a one session cram course or particular systems I accommodate them as they are paying for it. I prefer training over one and done but have no problem with one time sessions.
I expect this out of you as you are a reflection upon me, I don't want smoke blown up my butt, and I expect results. I will know in a few strokes how much you practiced.
Sorry for the long rant and thank you for the kind words.
Sincerely: SS