You're right... if you don't practice with it... it will be like holding a snake to some people.
I'm a big fan of the moosehead bridge. It has a cue position for each kind of shot so you are never left trying to balance it on a weird angle. It pops on and off my break cue very easily and remains in place solidly. It's cheap, maybe 7 bucks so I buy 3 or 4 at a time and keep them in various places in case I lose one. And, my break cue is heavy... 22oz, so when I have it on my break cue, it provides a really solid base for the bridge unlike some of the skinny house bridges I've seen.
But, the biggest bonues to me.... many house racks are metal. that metal is the bane of my nice clean scratchless shaft. The moosehead bridges are plastic. I don't have to worry about scratching my shaft up using them.
Greg