blah blah said:
Pool is the great equalizer: old/young, fat/thin, rich/poor, male/female, ethnicity, height; conceivably we're all equal when it comes to pool potential.
Other women: do you agree with me that it's easier to compete against men than it is against other women? I mean, not only does "she" play so damned slowly, but we also have a distracting sense of how "she" feels?
I do agree with you in that, with a few exceptions, I really rather prefer playing against men. Since I play in a womens league and a co-ed league, I can tell you that our womens' league matches generally run about 45 min to 1.5 hrs longer than the co-ed league does. That is because most of the women just play slower. They take more time to read the table or line up their shots. There are few women, sadly, who actually take the game seriously enough to actually study the mechanics of the game. I want to learn! I want to be the absolute best I can be, and that is why I read and watch alot of games. I can read a table immediately...but still will walk it, mostly to get in focus, lower the heart rate, etc. If I am in a defensive position, I am looking for the shot-safety...always!
I feel that older women have a slight advantage over younger women...not so much becuase of experience, although that is a factor...but because as women get older, they begin to have reduced estrogen levels and increased testosterone levels...the 'killer' instinct becomes easier to acheive.
When I hit the 'zone', there is nothing that can get me back out of it, except me. I don't hear anything, I don't even know there is anyone else in the room...it's just me and the table and the fluidity of moving from one ball to the next. I am seeing just the object ball, and it's path not only to the pocket, but INTO the pocket.
As far as men having a better ability to see things in 3D...any women who has spent any time sewing, or even designing their own patterns, knows visualization in 3D.
I also find it very interesting upon reading this thread, that the majority of the posts addressed have been those made by men. It's like the womans' voice is being ignored here. No matter, we're used to it, and it is precisely that attitude that makes women all the more dangerous....you simply do not take us seriously. Works for me, I love playing arrogant, young bucks...I will take the game 95% of the time. I am patient and I don't 'rattle'... you make a mistake, and I am going to go after you like a barricuda!
I am by no means an arrogant person. I have just worked very hard at my game and am now at the point where I have 'confidence' in my abilities. And that may well be the one area that men may have the advantage, overall, against women in pool...confidence.
Lisa