5aheadforpinks said:
This is a discussion on the different perceptions people have of whats going on.
I should say, "why women cant play pool as well as men", but... I dont think we need to be sexist here, women cant play as good as eunics or multigendered people either. Here is why... (ok, ok, I'm JK ladies)
Women have a different perspective of reality, they cannot percieve the table or the balls as they are. In other words they dont see the "now". They are usually thinking about what COULD happen OR what HAS happened.
They also have a much harder time getting "In the zone". Women are constantly thinking, second guessing themselves, and looking for others approval. All of these deny them of "zoning in".
How many of you posters can get in the "zone"; in which you just have to stare at the object ball, never looking at the cue ball (besides from your peripheral vision); even when your setting up, and you dont have to KNOW anything you just have to go through the motions?
For me its like my peripheral vision expands to the edges of the table, so no matter what Im looking at on the table, I see all of the table. This allows me to fully understand the physics of a shot without thinking about anything.
Anyway, this post isnt just about bashing women (just a catchy title). I would be interested to know how everyone else here sees, or perceives the table when in dead stroke; do any of you notice a difference from when you start warming up, to the time your in dead stroke?.
I am the SOFA KING we Tod id man.
Some (not all) women at some point in their life do constantly think, second guess themselves, and look for others approval in life in general. It's very ironic relating this to pool and that's why I was laughing out loud when I read the post!
However, that isn't the reason why some women get in the zone or not. Getting into the zone is a factor of one's mental toughness, ability in the game, and experience. If most of the women had the skills, experience, and established pre-shot routines (and mechanics) as Karen Corr and Allison Fisher, then their game would be better. Plain and simple, men are brought up with the killer instinct because they played sports starting when they were younger. Women are taught to be the caregiver. Check out this exaggerated scenario - when most women first start playing pool and they have to play a friend, they feel bad about it. No matter which friend wins the match, they hug and cry each other afterwards. Men, whether they have played 10 years or 10 days, want to beat a friend 7-0.
Here's what I have noticed about being a female pool player:
- When we first start playing pool, we think we can play anyone and we want to show off.
- As we get better, we want to play against more men.
- When we start playing in more local or regional women's tournaments against women, it's a new learning experience because there's more pressure to play women. If we play a guy and loose, it's okay; when two women play each other all the men are watching to see who is better.
- As we get even better, we play in more women's tournaments.
- As we get even better, we want to play with men only who are better than ourselves so we can improve to beat the other women.
As far as the very last question (the main reason for your post)... when I'm in the zone I just simply see (and feel) the table so clearly. My senses are heightened and I'm aware of everyone and everything around me, but nothing is bothering me or distracting me. My brain sees the entire table and what I'm going to do all at once, and I am focused automatically. I am free-stroking, calm, and not thinking much about my mechanics - I seem to be on auto-pilot..
I think this a good post!
Melinda