would you teach your kid to play pool

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Hi just wondering I know this isn't the right place to post but I'd like the instructor to add there 2 cents
I have a 9 year old son who likes pool and always wants to go with me to play I got the pool bug when I was 12 I was gambling Right from the beginning I got in fights and 1 thing lead to another I had a gambling problem in my 20s.... So would you teach your son to play if God forbid you know where it could lead
 
Teach, yes. Encourage to be pro,no. Enjoy the game for what it is a game. If you took your son to play little baseball would you tell to make bets with other players?
No secure future in the game. Svb made good money last year. For how long?
 
I am not an instructor but I would consider myself lucky if my son showed an interest in the game. We have a table in our home but my son (8) shows very little interest in much other than video games and youtube. I think there are ways you could encourage his skill and enjoyment of the game without the focus on gambling. Is there a family league or parent-child league in your area? Might be worth researching - we used to have one nearby, but I don't think it ever took off.
 
When I have kids I would say no to pool and yes to snooker. Pool offers no reward for being a very good player. The only way to make a living in the game at the minute is by being amongst the top 5 in the world. Compare that to snooker and the top 16 have very good livings.

I would be reluctant to show my children into a pool hall. Education comes first, that will set you up for life. Being good with a cue in your hands wont.
 
Teach your kids to play--and tell your local poolroom owners you want nonsmoking, non-alcohol rooms for them to play in or the future of pool is doomed. Kids need to play to become the next generation of players.
 
Hi just wondering I know this isn't the right place to post but I'd like the instructor to add there 2 cents
I have a 9 year old son who likes pool and always wants to go with me to play I got the pool bug when I was 12 I was gambling Right from the beginning I got in fights and 1 thing lead to another I had a gambling problem in my 20s.... So would you teach your son to play if God forbid you know where it could lead

Not all pool players gamble.

Not all pool players who gamble get in fights.

Not all pool players who gamble become addicted to gambling.

I definitely understand your concerns, and believe me, I know that raising kids is no simple matter. But there are upsides to playing pool. I wouldn't deny your son the opportunity.
 
If it keeps him off the couch, it's a good thing.

I suspect it's the time with his dad that he enjoys the most. Whatever you like to do, he'll probably want to do it with you.

If it were me, I'd rather get him out into the fresh air, tossing a ball back and forth, or even some tennis or golf lessons. As long as you're there with him, he'll probably be a happy kid doing anything you suggest.
 
If it keeps him off the couch, it's a good thing.

I suspect it's the time with his dad that he enjoys the most. Whatever you like to do, he'll probably want to do it with you.

If it were me, I'd rather get him out into the fresh air, tossing a ball back and forth, or even some tennis or golf lessons. As long as you're there with him, he'll probably be a happy kid doing anything you suggest.

^^^^^ this
 
Yep already started teaching both my 4yr old boys......pull up a chair and let them wack balls around for now and just focus on holding the cue right and just hittin balls. They love it and get so geeked when they can actually put one in!!!!
 
Not all pool players gamble.

Not all pool players who gamble get in fights.

Not all pool players who gamble become addicted to gambling.

I definitely understand your concerns, and believe me, I know that raising kids is no simple matter. But there are upsides to playing pool. I wouldn't deny your son the opportunity.

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If it keeps him off the couch, it's a good thing.

I suspect it's the time with his dad that he enjoys the most. Whatever you like to do, he'll probably want to do it with you.

If it were me, I'd rather get him out into the fresh air, tossing a ball back and forth, or even some tennis or golf lessons. As long as you're there with him, he'll probably be a happy kid doing anything you suggest.

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one of my daughters in interested in pool, and we play together quite a bit.

its great for father/daughter bonding time....and I might sign us both up for a league some day, but that's about it..........
 
Hi just wondering I know this isn't the right place to post but I'd like the instructor to add there 2 cents
I have a 9 year old son who likes pool and always wants to go with me to play I got the pool bug when I was 12 I was gambling Right from the beginning I got in fights and 1 thing lead to another I had a gambling problem in my 20s.... So would you teach your son to play if God forbid you know where it could lead

Two things stand out to me in your post.

1. Your son likes pool
2. Gambling had an adverse effect on your life

Definitely teach your son how to play the game he already likes. But also let him know about your experiences with gambling and in turn your views on how to handle himself as a person while in that environment.

Best of luck! Count yourself lucky! My three sons never took to it. But who knows what tomorrow holds!

Ken
 
Hi just wondering I know this isn't the right place to post but I'd like the instructor to add there 2 cents
I have a 9 year old son who likes pool and always wants to go with me to play I got the pool bug when I was 12 I was gambling Right from the beginning I got in fights and 1 thing lead to another I had a gambling problem in my 20s.... So would you teach your son to play if God forbid you know where it could lead

None of my kids aspired to play pool. I didn't encourage or discourage them. My two sons do play pool recreationally. That means that they might go out with friends after work and have a beer around a bar table ... but neither of them take the game seriously. They excel at other things - such as athletics & music. My oldest daughter wouldn't know which end of the cue to shoot with - and my youngest daughter really couldn't tell you the difference between a cue ball and a bowling ball.

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The funny thing is that they have always been around it since they were very small - I used to be a room owner - and when they would come by the room - they gravitated over to the video games - not the pool tables.

Just trust that you'll teach him right and teach him well enough to make wise choices in life. You have no control over where he ends up - but you can influence the roads he takes.
 
Not quite true Pidge...at least here in the states. One can make a very comfortable living being a "pool entertainer"...and skill at the table is probably the smallest part of the equation. I've been successful doing exhibitions for more than 20 years, and my mentor Jack White was one of the most successful exhibition players ever, performing all over the world for more than 5 decades. There are more than 8000 2 yr and 4 yr public and private colleges and universities right here in the U.S.A. Add to that military installations, and corporate gig opportunities, and there is room for hundreds of people like myself. The one thing you cannot do is sit on the couch and wait for people to call you...you have to market yourself (which is a skill unto itself). The other opportunity is becoming a professional instructor. One can make a nice living do that as well! I feel fortunate in that I am able to have revenue streams in both those areas! :thumbup: I would agree with your appraisal if you only consider tournament pool and gambling.

On topic, I would (and did) teach my child to play pool, at a young age (8). He never showed great interest, but did enjoy playing with me, and often asked to be taught something. I just tried to make it fun for him and let him lead the way. Today, at 34, he still enjoys the game, and can even run a rack once in a while!

Scott Lee
http://poolknowledge.com

The only way to make a living in the game at the minute is by being amongst the top 5 in the world.
 
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My recommendation: Anyone interested in getting their kids lessons should get an instructor who has had a background check done on themselves and who can present the results of the test.

I think kids deserve that.
 
My recommendation: Anyone interested in getting their kids lessons should get an instructor who has had a background check done on themselves and who can present the results of the test.

I think kids deserve that.

Hi Fran,

I totally agree.

The thing is that it's not just about protecting one's own children but what about the children in one's neighborhood or even general area. Nothing may happen in one's own home or wherever the lessons are given but what about other children on the way to & from that location.

I did a fair amount of playground coaching & after it was discovered that a child molester was a volunteer coach for the city, then background checks became mandatory for all coaches. However it was one child too late.

Not only that, but lawyers are very creative with connective arguments regarding who they decide to sue. An instructor is basically working for the client & that can include the travel time to & from in the eyes of some.

We now live in a sue happy world full of lawyers.

We've been here before & there were some rather odd arguments against what you propose, at least in my eyes they seemed odd.

I find it rather difficult to believe that the PBIA certifies individuals without requiring background checks.

One of the arguments the last time you brought it up was cost. The simple answer is that the applicant covers the cost & if certified it's their responsibility to keep it current & up to date or lose the PBIA certification.

If one does not want to submit to a background check then there must be a reason(s).

No system is perfect but at least if a system is in place one is doing what one can.

I sincerely hope that this does not turn into another back & forth. When it comes to this subject everyone should be on the same side & that is on the side of ALL innocent young people.

Best 2 You & All,
Rick
 
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