> To me,betting on a pool match that I am involved in,whether playing even,giving or taking a spot,is NOT gambling,it's a calculated risk. I say that because if I agree to a game,like I said whether I am playing someone my speed even,giving or taking a spot,I know what is involved and have evaluated the monetary risk well before I post the cash. If I lose at that point,I either made a bad game myself,by trying to jump someone over my head,took a bad game that someone offered,or offered too much weight and didn't play well enough to cover it,or got outplayed even. If I win,I came up with the right shots and decisons at critical times,my opponent didn't,or someone offered too much weight and I played good behind it. I will not be badgered or pushed into a game I can't win,betting all I have with no way to eat and survive,or chase action by repeatedly trying to either step up and beat someone WAY over my head,or give up a spot I have to play inhuman pool to win with. I don't sit and make people wait on an answer either,if someone approaches me for a game,even,giving/getting,you'll have your answer pretty quick,my mind is made up by that point and whatever happens happens. No one that ever met me and played more than an occasional set with me has questioned my desire or will to win. That being said,working for a living and child support doesn't give me much choice either. I'm not borrowing gas money or money for the bills and daily meals because I went broke trying to beat the ghost. I consider things like betting serious money in matches I'm not involved in,like side-betting,pro sports,games of chance,to be closer to the true definition of gambling that betting on a pool match you knew before the balls were racked that you COULD lose at. Casinos,slot machines,scratch off lottery tickets,and crap like the shell game to me aren't really gambling either,because in my mind,only an idiot truly expects to get that money back,in my mind they might as well be burning it. On the extremely rare occasions I bet on something I have no direct control of the outcome in,I have allocated a certain amount to blow,and see how much enjoyment I can have blowing it,never expecting to see it again,but HOPING it comes back,rather than depending on it.
> In another vein,if I had the kind of "disposable" income that hard work or good fortune created for some of the people here do,or was independently wealthy away from the game,or was tapped in to the parallell economy that some road players,high powered backers/side bettors,where 1000-10000 to possibly just give away isn't hard to come by,a LOT of people would be looking for me. Either to pump up by beating me,or trying to beat me,because if the money were no object like it is for people that regularly engage in these things,I'd try ANYONE,because I like to play THAT much. I believe in myself that much,that pool skills aside I want to win worse than you,and will try harder than you. The monetary result to me is second to the challenge of the game itself,the challenge between myself and the opponent,the self-discovery and enrichment it affords,and the eventual outcome. Winning money playing pool is not as important as playing WINNING pool to me,period. Tommy D.