profoundly stupid question
- By Bavafongoul
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- 144 Replies
The problem is not with your daughter who would treat her dad’s stuff with respect knowing it’s important to you and you were trusting her. I have no problem with that part. You wouldn’t be asking the question if you did not trust her at her word.
The problem is with her juvenile friends and burdening her with the responsibility of making sure all her friends are careful and respectful is a shitty task to bear. Then the question is does she become so distracted she doesn’t enjoy herself. Or worse, has to correct or chastise one of her friends for not listening to what she told them about being careful.
I’d lay down the law to the kids as a group before letting them know this is a test of their growing up and acting responsibly. You trust your daughter and she trusts them so don’t disappoint her and they had better not disappoint you either. Enjoy your time and here are the rules…..
The problem is with her juvenile friends and burdening her with the responsibility of making sure all her friends are careful and respectful is a shitty task to bear. Then the question is does she become so distracted she doesn’t enjoy herself. Or worse, has to correct or chastise one of her friends for not listening to what she told them about being careful.
I’d lay down the law to the kids as a group before letting them know this is a test of their growing up and acting responsibly. You trust your daughter and she trusts them so don’t disappoint her and they had better not disappoint you either. Enjoy your time and here are the rules…..