I was at the BCA Texas State Tourney last weekend and I saw a guy scratch on the 8 ball. The opposing teammates then started clapping!
I realize it was a big match (for the hotseat) but I couldn't believe the guys would clap for that.
In the women's team event we kind of duck our heads and don't high-five with a win like that, and yet these guys were clapping and hollering. I guess I just don't get it.
Maybe you like to win anyway you can, but I DO hate to win like that....sorry if you think that is BS. I hate when I'm given ball in hand on the money ball too, but you don't have to believe me on that one either.
I love it when others know how I feel about something....![]()
Since you hate winning that way so much, do you offer to replay the game every time it happens (during gambling sessions also)?
If you do this... then I will certainly believe you feel bad about winning on a scratch.
That would remove any guilt you may feel. :big smirk:
I dunno, I am one who might feel that, "I hate to win like that". What that translates to for me is that I'd much rather have won by my good play than by my opponent's bad roll, etc. It doesn't mean that I'd rather lose, although in the long run I would rather know that my opponents will punish me when I give them chances to get out because that will force me to elevate my game.
"I hate to win like that", I think is just a matter of trying to remain humble and acknowledge the fact that they played well and just got unlucky or made an uncharacteristic mistake. I don't always verbalize this to them, because I know it's rare when someone actually makes me feel better after a loss when they try to console me. It's like, just leave me alone and let me lick my wounds in peace. Don't patronize me. LOL.
Anyway, if I happen to come out ahead by luck, I'll still take the win. They have to earn it, rather than being given the win because they got close. Luck is part of the game, and your opponent's errors are also part of the game. If not, we should all only enter pro tournaments, to minimize the chances of winning on our opponents' mistakes.
Just my 0.02 v-cash.
Since you hate winning that way so much, do you offer to replay the game every time it happens (during gambling sessions also)?
If you do this... then I will certainly believe you feel bad about winning on a scratch.
That would remove any guilt you may feel. :big smirk:
I always clap and cheer when my opponent makes a mistake. I usually also say things like, 'it is like a nightmare isn't it', or 'you suck'.:thumbup:
I prefer..."Yeah, I would have shot it exactly the same way....but different!"
Or perhaps..."Yeah, that's what I would do." as they are getting down on the ball...
Or maybe right after they make a ball..."You ain't out".
Or perhaps the ever witty..."Nice shot. Hey does your husband play?"
or how about..."I win" right after they give you ball in hand...
another nice one is after a scratch on an open break or if the break is wide open and they dont drop a ball..."Hey, is this a gimmeee?"
Or maybe this one..."Wow, either you are that bad or just that stupid."
or after they miss or hook themselves..."Isn't this fun?........Or let me rephrase that...isn't this fun for me!"
Don't forget... "That's a nice shot! ... if you don't like money!!" :thumbup:
Well, it's obviously not just Texans - this happens all the time in big team event tournaments.
You bunch of liars. You can't tell me that something like this hasn't happened to you and you, may not have cheered, but broke into a smile or a "yeah." Especially gambling or betting on matches. It is a little classless, but we've ALL done something similar. I guess you play golf just for fun and fresh air, too. Well then don't even take a scorecard.
Also, we don't know the whole story, either. There may have been words prior, or even a little joking around, or animosity, or well almost anything. Come on guys, we weren't there.
Matter of fact, I think we should be able to "chatter" like in little league baseball. "Player can't play. He's known as a Poodle. Dog it. Dog it. Dog it!"
League players, in the immortal words of Tony Soprano, whadayagonnado? I've seen that happen in Vegas before also and it is second class behavior, very bush league. I mean, act like you've won a match before.