Looking for a bit of advise here. Here's the story
I agreed to buy a cue from a guy on here who lives in U.S. We agree a deal and i send him money through paypal.
He says he will send cue the next day.
Next day comes and he says there's a problem he needs to wait 3 days for the money to clear into his mum's account.
I respond saying once paypal says you have funds the money is yours why the delay? He responds saying he has no money to pay for shipping and will have to wait for the money to clear.
So although i'm little pi**ed off about this i wait the 3 days and pm him asking for an update, has the money cleared? has the cue been shipped? and i receive no response. I pm him every day for the next 4 days asking for an update and receive nothing back, he has been on AZ every day but decided to just ignore all my messages.
So i start to think i've been scammed and give him 1 last chance saying i will submit a claim though paypal tonight unless i receive a response.
So eventually i get a response saying he is sorry for not getting back to me but there is a second problem the money went to his mum's account but he lost it because it cleared her overdraft! he should have the money this week and i am his main priority. He then asks me to be patient with him as he is really broke at the moment and has no job.
I pm'd him back saying i want some answers or a paypal claim is going to happen i want his address and phone number, when exactly will he have the funds? why he ignored my messages? and why did the money clear his mums overdraft surely you would know it was going to do this?
I tell him i want an immediate answer and again i get ignored.
So what would you do? The guy i agreed the deal with has 1 itrader 100% and 300 posts i don't want to unveil him yet untill i decide what to do, and I know its always a risk buying something from a random person and escrow is best but the cue is only worth $235 so not huge loss but thats not the point.
Shall i give him till the end of the week to get the money and send cue?
Should i go straight to paypal and bust him?
what would you do?
I agreed to buy a cue from a guy on here who lives in U.S. We agree a deal and i send him money through paypal.
He says he will send cue the next day.
Next day comes and he says there's a problem he needs to wait 3 days for the money to clear into his mum's account.
I respond saying once paypal says you have funds the money is yours why the delay? He responds saying he has no money to pay for shipping and will have to wait for the money to clear.
So although i'm little pi**ed off about this i wait the 3 days and pm him asking for an update, has the money cleared? has the cue been shipped? and i receive no response. I pm him every day for the next 4 days asking for an update and receive nothing back, he has been on AZ every day but decided to just ignore all my messages.
So i start to think i've been scammed and give him 1 last chance saying i will submit a claim though paypal tonight unless i receive a response.
So eventually i get a response saying he is sorry for not getting back to me but there is a second problem the money went to his mum's account but he lost it because it cleared her overdraft! he should have the money this week and i am his main priority. He then asks me to be patient with him as he is really broke at the moment and has no job.
I pm'd him back saying i want some answers or a paypal claim is going to happen i want his address and phone number, when exactly will he have the funds? why he ignored my messages? and why did the money clear his mums overdraft surely you would know it was going to do this?
I tell him i want an immediate answer and again i get ignored.
So what would you do? The guy i agreed the deal with has 1 itrader 100% and 300 posts i don't want to unveil him yet untill i decide what to do, and I know its always a risk buying something from a random person and escrow is best but the cue is only worth $235 so not huge loss but thats not the point.
Shall i give him till the end of the week to get the money and send cue?
Should i go straight to paypal and bust him?
what would you do?