Simply put he over inflated the book to the point that it made it undesirable to me. And if you need to have things explained to you 10 different ways then I think the use of a scientific psycho analysis is wasted on you.
You can get upset with me if you want about my opinion but it wont do you much good will it?
Cdryden:
You're getting me wrong. I'm not "upset" with you or your opinion. I thought this was a civil debate? So far, it has, IMHO. And actually, I've been enjoying you piquing my debating skills. So I certainly don't have any negative emotions towards you or your opinion. You are entitled to it, and your ability to defend it (and not just "this is just what I think and I don't know why") is laudable.
What I *do* have a problem with, is exactly what the OP posted -- he's got the book, but instead of reading it, he's asking us to point him to the exact chapter, exact paragraph, exact sentence that would be "of value." Like we're supposed to know what's going to be of value to
him. Or, what I call the "Easter Egg hunt" -- i.e. everyone tells him what was of value to him/her in the book (again, exact chapter/paragraph), he collects these, and then he pointedly goes to these exact chapters/paragraphs and basically "Easter Eggs" his way through them. "No, this one was boring... no, this one doesn't make sense... no that one doesn't apply to me..." etc. Instead of reading the book
(jeez christmas, it's in his possession, afterall -- it's not like he's borrowing it from a friend during lunch and needs to get the book back before lunch-hour is over!), he wants to be spoon-fed. In my book, there's no excuse for this. We're not writing a quick thesis on what Leo Tolstoy was thinking when he wrote a certain chapter in
War and Peace, and we need someone to give us a quick pointer on where to look in that chapter because the "thesis paper is due in an hour." No, we're reading a little paperback book, medium-faced type, of only 140 pages.
Anyway, like I said, I have no issue with you
at all. Just a friendly debate, and you'll notice I didn't respond to those areas in your post where you expressed a little emotion. Just the points themselves.
I hope you're hitting 'em good!
-Sean