I'm 63 so what do you think? I saw a lot of what you're talking about even when I started playing seriously but not from the serious players, mostly not, anyhowIt's just gotten worse over the years and more prevalent than some people apparently think. I'm glad that there seems to be more and more interest in Straight Pool again and it may make a difference. I don't know, I feel pretty jaded lately, notice very few posts by me in the main forum anymore.
Sorry Maniac. Last time we played I was only 49. Now that I am 50 I am sure I will be more respectful.
Larry
You're 50??? Better take a close look at your body (for memories sake), because it's soon to take a downhill plunge :sorry:!!!
BTW, I'm meeting with a buddy of yours Sunday to buy a cue from him (Willie Speed). Gotta keep supportin' the local cuemakers :thumbup:!!!
Maniac
I am 59 years of age. I grew up when pool was "sort of" a gentlemans game. Things have changed.
In my past, you sat in your chair, your were still, and you were quiet. I miss that. I still do it that way, but I wish the gesture was reciprocal.
When a shooter misses a shot, they not only stand at the table far too long after the balls have stopped rolling, but they have the audacity to pick up the chalk and stand there and chalk their cue before heading to the chair. WTF???
Maniac (already dining on a little cheese with his whine :grin![]()
You were supposed to end this with "GET OFF MY LAWN! DAMN kids....
* TXTing table-side -- I'm talking about the opponent here, in a live match, non-stop. It's one thing if you have to respond to an emergency TXT from work (heck, I have to do that at times, being the 24/7 "network security guy" and I'll excuse myself to my opponent). But it's quite another when it's obvious "chat" TXT that doesn't serve any purpose.
...just pool tables, coffee, a soda machine and chips (which you'd BETTER wash your hands from before approaching Mr. Lisciotti's tables!).
We need to clean up our act as pool players--from top to bottom, and we all have a role to play at our various levels.
I do agree that some ppl lack billiard etiquette , but b!tch!ng about headphones , and texting is extreme,, could it be some of you are just making excuses as to why you may of lost that particular match ?!
OK I have to say I'm far, far from 50s (I'm kinda a representative of those younger crowds you mentioned), but I agree with some of your points. For example, other players and people around the table should do their best to bother the shooter as little as possible. However, I have to say I'm against pool being a "gentleman's game" anymore. Nothing personal, it's just my opinion. There's nothing wrong with players wearing a headset while playing. If they prefer playing that way, I don't see why anybody should be offended. After all, it's their choice. Other unnecessary formalities should be avoided just as well. We only need to keep an eye on actions which decrease the quality of the game itself (the situation on the table). Also, there's no reason for players to "apologize" for getting probablity shots, which you called "lucky shots". Of course, boosting with it as it's an aiming skill is just stupid and wrong, but a smart player knows how to take advantage of probabilty. Some players I know, as well as I, incorporated the probability in our play styles, and when those shots prove successful, we would just feel retarded to apologize. For those who disagree with this post, you should know I didn't mean to offend anyone, as this is just my personal opinion.
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PS: When people ask me "plz" because it's shorter than "please", I tell them "no" because it's shorter than "yes".
I think the initial post of this thread related to two players playing each other in a match or competition or something of similar nature. As for all you comments they too are correct. Being around the newer style rooms and Bars with bar tables and Cocktails, they create and go after whats currently accepted, and accepting those conditions are Normal for Non-Players and most surviving room owners, as Many don't care or percieve pool as any different than playing a game of ping pong.
The gentlemans game you talk about was the foundation of our game, and at one point in time, Willie Mosconi was the highest paid athlete in the world when he was on Brunswicks payroll. Back then those players wore suits and portrayed our game in a way it ''demanded'' respect, and got it, nowadays society here has socially deterioated to a point, that Many could care less about Anything, unless it benefits them and them alone. I remember yrs ago when I first heard the expression, ''I only take care of #1 (meaning yourself). Nowadays that attitude is Very prevalant in All aspects of society. I call it the political ''trickle down effect''. I always wonder if many politicians when they were raised were told by their parents, ''don't ever compromise'', as the current climate worldwide seems to have endorsed that thinking, and in turn NOTHING ever gets done.
* Wearing headphones while in a match -- especially turned-up so loud, that people on the other side of the table can identify the house boom-boom music being played.
From my last bottle:
Flavors: ripe plums with a touch of spice
Enjoy: with antipasto, good times & great friends
If you would rather text, go do that instead. It’s probably cheaper at home at any rate. None of these are excuses for losing, this thread is about respect for other people. Not “rspct”, or w/e. If you find yourself feeling everyone is, “out to get you”, or a need to defend your game by calling etiquette an “excuse” you probably haven’t played beyond a local bar with a Ram-Shot.
PS: When people ask me "plz" because it's shorter than "please", I tell them "no" because it's shorter than "yes".
Next week, bring in a Tesla coil, a power supply, and set it up. Invite your friends over to see some magic fireworks. Press a button, and presto, no electronic device in a couple hundred feet will be operating.
On second thought, you might want to back your car up to the back of the building, set off the Tesla coil, and then go park normally......
I don't text at the table, or wear headphones for that matter, but if I needed to text or take a call, I'd make you wait,, there wouldn't be nothing you could do, but wait until I was done with my call or text anyway, If you was to run your mouth about it , Id set you straight by any means necessary ..
A emergency on your part doesn't constitute as one on my behalf.
PS, I can hold my own in life ,as well as at the table,, there isn't nothing I'd tell you in this forum ,that I wouldn't tell you to your face.. I'm fully willing to back my words up on any ground.. Regardless of your creed, size or reputation,, I will hold my own !!!
Your complaining about frivolous peeves , makes you look as if you're no more than a relic whose time has past him by.. Is it that your jealous of those whose prime is at hand, when yours has diminished ?!?!
You get respect if you earn it !!!!!
You don't get it off me, just cause you're older in age, you must prove you're worth respecting ,before I'll treat you with respect..
That respect your elders doesn't mean jack to me,, especially when alot of the older guys I came across are narrow minded ,and think they know it all, until they're proven wrong.. Then they get all flustered, and there lips seal shut when they're face to face with adversity..
When its a forum setting there mouths run a million miles per minute, in reality ,not all, but a big amount of them are chumps..
It boils down to this...........
If you give me respect ,I'll give respect in return,, if you don't ,then you'll get what you get...
Play your game, and that's it,, dont worry about someone texting, or wearing headphones, its not your place to care ..
Us younger guys don't complain when you oldies run to the rest room to p!ss every 5 minutes, because your bladder is to thin to hold liquid any longer than that @ your fragile age..
Let ppl live how they want,, if it isn't directly effecting you, then you shouldn't care..
If the music to loud ,get earplugs.. If your opponent chalks while your approaching the table,if it aint your chalk, then let them chalk..
Its 2012, not 1950 ,,your hay days have pass, so now you complain how the worlds changed, cause you cant do anything at your age but complain..
Like it or not ,that's the way of the world old timer,, and you can cry about it until you're blue in the face,, that still wont change the New world,, we are your future ,love it ,or hate it..
Old timer? That made me laugh.
Yup, a mighty display of that Test-osty-rone hormone stuff, for ya. Git'r done!!