How many special circumstance rules should we create to accommodate you? You opt to engage everyone that has *anything* to say regarding you. At that point, everything is an escalation.
??? Not hardly Dave. You should have simply enforced the rules you already have in place. Of course I engage people who say things about me. That is part of what a forum is about. The point I am making which you are missing is that in the past you have allowed people to flame me quite heavily with zero repercussion and only stepped in when the argument got well out of hand on both sides.
Recently you allowed two people, one of whom is Joe Van Buren, to essentially accuse me of being a pedophile. You banned a person for calling Jenny a certain word but it's ok with you if people call me a child molester? If that's not worth a ban then I fail to see what is.
Do you feel you rate protection from the entire community's opinion..unless you approve?
No. I can deal just fine with anyone's opinion. What I can't deal with is defamation. I should not have to explain the difference to you.
I don't. I know first hand and from years of experience in dealing with you that you lack the simple ability to shut up.
Can't do it. Hard wired into your brain and you'll have an embolism if you couldn't have the very last word on *anything*.
You're probably right. But that does not change the fact that you play favorites and allow people to defame me and break the rules on namecalling and harassment. Sorry but that's what you have done and what you continue to do.
In person, you might be different. Online, you're just another keyboard commando. You believe you are beyond any reproach on any topic.
That is absolutely not true. I take my lumps and admit when I wrong. What I believe Dave is that you don't moderate fairly. The record shows it in my case and in the case of many others. I was wrong to meet people's personal attacks with similar vitriol. At times I felt I had no choice as appeals to you yielded no help. Now however I am much more at peace and choose to respond to attacks with civility. Even to your attacks.
That record stands for itself. Anyone who remembers or cares can chime in about RSB, AZB, BD, IP....how many other forums? The behavior and reasons you have detractors across the board is because of YOUR behavior...not moderation.
I agree in premise. Ultimately it's my choice in how to respond to attacks. But it's your moderation that allows a climate where attacks are frequent and vitriolic. On other boards with more consistent moderation and low tolerance things are peaceful and the members don't attack each other. Once in a while there will be a flare-up which is quickly quelled but a moderator. Those boards also have many more moderators to stay on top of things. As I have said I don't envy you with the responsibility you have volunteered for. You have a lot of members and threads to keep up with. I am sorry that in the past I have argued pretty hard and made it tough for you at times.
I stand by my words. You should never have been allowed back.
That is based on the long standing forum rules and then when applied to yourself...they aren't good enough.
I should not have been banned in the first place. You can have your opinion Dave but as long as you refuse to see your part in how the forum as a whole has played out you will always find scapegoats in the people like me who are willing to stand up and tell you their perspective.
Mike saw fit to make some exception. I wonder if he's ever regretted doing so. This cloud of animosity that follows you wherever you go has got to give him headaches.
I told Mike that if he wants me to leave all he has to do is ask. I have been nice to you and everyone else here. Even in the face of you allowing people to call me a child molester I have maintained my decorum. You are forcing the animosity Dave. I have a lot of people here who really like me and like what I contribute to the forum. But because you allowed a core group to stalk and harass me they are now permanent fixtures in my forum life. They will needle and jab at every opportunity just as Joe is clearly doing here. And they know that you will do nothing to stop them.
My daughter is into My Little Pony. In that series the Pegasus ponies are responsible for keeping the sky clear. You could erase the cloud by applying the rules to the antagonists but you refuse to do it.
Why are you worth it where others are banned permanently?
Well, this is a loaded question because we can't very well compare cases can we?
But my opinion as stated above and repeated here is that with moderation that quells flame wars before they ever get started, and which shows little to no tolerance for mean personal attacks and defamation then there would be a vibrant community where lots of industry folks would like to be in order to engage their customers and fans. I personally think I bring a lot to the table as an industry veteran and world billiard traveler as well as decent pool player.
But in the past that has been tainted by my responses to personal attacks. I gave as good as I got and that was not productive at all. But if you care at all about AZB and growth then you want people like me who have a lot to offer the community. You should be protective of all the members but especially of the ones who are professionals, both players and industry insiders.
These are the people who can create useful content that readers want and need. People don't need flame wars and juvenile mudslinging. They need good conversation that is as factual as it can be. I am one of the people that has actual facts about a segment of the billiard industry. So that's why I am "worth it".
Does that grant me a license to be a jerk? Absolutely not. Should it provide me with a little extra protection against attacks, I think so. People like me are bigger targets and part of your job should be to encourage professionals to want to be here. In my opinion of course and looking at it from a business standpoint.
So there you go. You asked.