i bet Gail took a running jump at you!
i remember sitting in the high rollers lounge, sipping ____ ____s till 3AM, when the conversation finally turned to the ensuing obvious.... you glossed over yáll's history with honesty, and class. you told me your plans to prepare. and i knew @ Mosconi, that you would prevail.
it was never about the money. yáll both played a damn good match, for a very long time.
now, as i recall from last summer, the original bet included:
loser won't post on AZ for a year
checkmate.
The original bet did not include such a provision. Neither Lou nor myself offered any such stipulation.
As for spouses crying.
Lou has written things about me that have made my spouse upset many times. He has written things about Stan Shuffett that have made Stans wife and children very upset. He has written things about Half Houle that made Hal's wife upset.
Lou said to me that he looked back at what he said on RSB and was ashamed of how nasty he was back then and hoped I can see he has changed. And he has but still has written much that is harsh and upsetting to his targets and their spouses.
I have said many times on here that everyone has "good" sides and that we are all loved by someone.
There are many on here that I detest, some whom I personally believe are huge wastes of oxygen who are good friends with people I respect. To my friends those people are good people.
So while it is sad that Gail cried listening to me say things about the man she married it is equally sad that the man she married has used his writing ability to deliberately hurt others.
I don't need to give you examples. If you or any one cared to look over Lou's posting history then it would be easy to find and easy to find Connie Shuffetts reaction to Lou's brand of criticism.
So I think we can call the spousal reactions a wash at this point. Anything I have ever said to Lou has been a reaction to his first strike. Always.
Let me make that clear.
Anything I have EVER said to Lou or about Lou has been in RESPONSE to his instigation.
That goes all the way back to 2000 when all this started.
Now, responding and choosing to engage is my problem. I certainly own that and am not proud of all the time I have spent counterattacking. I have said a lot of things that were harsh in response. Poke people enough and they will probably not react well.
Anyway......I will compose the story from my perspective and then the forum will have both and they can then choosd their own part in it.