Well, this is a heck of a coincidence.
I got my 9' table back in '93 after moving into or new home. Before that I would stop at a local pool hall after work, practice for an hour and then head for the house. Did this everyday without fail. At $3.50 an hour that's approximately $70 a month so getting my own table was a no brainer.
Like you, there has never been a game of any kind played on my table, I bought the table to be used as a tool.
In early 1993 I bought Bert Kinisters Tight Pockets Workout for 9 Ball on VHS. Since the tv was in the other room I diagrammed all of the shots to take to the table.
Everyday I would practice the diagrammed shots from 6pm to 10pm and then go to bed. I did this for what seemed like years. Sure enough, every shot in the video or a slight variation of the shots came up all the time out in the field.
Then I heard about Ryan Elliott, so I bought the package "Overcoming Contendrousis" and listened to one side of the cassette (12 sides, 6 cassettes) to go to sleep by. Did this every night for a year. i guess you could say that I self administered brain washing. But I wanted to be a good player. Later on I also bought his "Dead Stroke" tapes.
On the way to play I would listen to Daniel Kobialka's "Timeless Motion" which is a subliminal tape.
What I found out was I was starting to play "in the zone" it's a wonderful feeling. That all ended in the year 2000, for some reason I lost the feel, got disgusted and quit playing for ten years.
In January of 2010 I looked at the table, which had been converted to a work bench and said "I'm going to start over right from the beginning", like you would teach someone that had never picked up a cue or played the game. Man, it's been a painful 7 years but I'm slowly getting the feel back. There is no quitting this time.
Like you I spend a lot of time watching and listening to Barry Stark also Nic Barrows religiously. They have no issues with sharing their teachings with folks that want to learn. (unlike the instructors we have here on AZB. I will say that Fran Crimi is the only instructor that publicly wants to help players asking questions.)
Over the last 7 years my library of training DVD's and Books has increased. The material I'm most proud of is Tor Lowry's (Zero-X) instructional series. I also really enjoyed and benefited from pointers in Stan's "Get a Grip" video series.
Sorry about being so long winded but when reading your post I thought "well I'll be" that's exactly what I did and do.
Have a good one Low500
John