OMG, I cannot believe I agree with yo a55, stranger things have happened..... I think.
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OMG, I cannot believe I agree with yo a55, stranger things have happened..... I think.
Agreed, but what some players forget to make clear up front is, say you are 3 sets up playing even and that is the point in which you re-negotiate to give him a spot. Then it needs to be clear that 3 sets up is the threshold, and once he gets back to within 2 sets, that spot is taken away for the next set. As long as you are 3 or more sets up, he keeps getting that spot in future sets until you re-negotiate again, or he quits, but as soon as he gets back to within 2 sets or less, you are playing even again.My bad... if I have the man beat two or three sets, and I'm beating him
handily, I might give him a small spot, nothing crazy.
You never know, he might be stalling or legit not playing very well.
Agreed, but what some players forget to make clear up front is, say you are 3 sets up playing even and that is the point in which you re-negotiate to give him a spot. Then it needs to be clear that 3 sets up is the threshold, and once he gets back to within 2 sets, that spot is taken away for the next set. As long as you are 3 or more sets up, he keeps getting that spot in future sets until you re-negotiate again, or he quits, but as soon as he gets back to within 2 sets or less, you are playing even again.
My bad... if I have the man beat two or three sets, and I'm beating him
handily, I might give him a small spot, nothing crazy.
You never know, he might be stalling or legit not playing very well.
With the clear understanding that we are now adjusting every set, if necessary.
That shits more likely to end up paying the house ONLY, than scotch doubles where you flip partners.
Might as well stay home and play with yourself.
You are coming across as a bit tight with no sense of gamble
whats wrong with spotting the guy a little
his arguments seem valid to me
If he is playing bad that day and you spot him and lose end the end. Who says he will spot you the next time if your the one hitting them badly and his is in dead punch?
To me, just not a good agreement unless it is someone that you know.
I'm pretty good at spotting a stall.. having said that, there's a lot of things to
consider here, lots of variables...
I have the man down, say, three sets.. playing even, beating him handily.
He asks for a spot, say the 8 in Nine Ball. Say I beat him two out of three
sets.. the man most likely will quit at that point, unless we're playing
super cheap sets. And I don't think if we play again he's gonna play
any better.
Did he want to raise the bet with the spot?.. or double or nothing
in three sets?
IMO, guys usually quit losers if they're getting beat and you won't
give them weight.. the crying game.
And quitting winners on a guy is still chintzy IMO.
$.02
Now THAT is funny!!Some would say your request for guidance is akin to:
How can I act like a nit and not suffer consequence?
I agree with what you said. Pretty much same as your above post.
Most people think they can't be hustled but they can be for sure. Some are easier to hustle than others but, in the end, it can happen to most.
If your one of the few that cannot be hustled then your good to go in the above scenario.
I have no problem with someone quitting after a set is finished. Like most, I had "rather" be given some sort of warning with an option before hand.
In the end, there are way to many variables to consider to give definitive answer without saying "if this or if that".
As I said, most are not able to spot the hustle. Now days people have protection from the hustle that was not there before. The protection is social media. As we know, social media killed the hustlers chance for all but the very best.
The OP question, to me, has very few options. He either gives a little something up mid set or they may not finish the set. That brings another question, did they post and who is holding? Again, as most have said, lots of variables to consider.
As usual, most everything we answer on here is mostly a guess at best due to the same reasons. It's still lots of fun regardless. At least on here I can pretend I know what I'm talking about...lol.
Rake
Just to clarify, this post is about adjusting mid-session, not mid-set. Meaning, we just finished a few sets and are planning to keep playing more.
Then just say, "I've been playing over my usual speed tonight and I think the game is pretty close to fair. Let's continue this way for a while or we can play again another night. I don't feel I'm really ahead enough to adjust."Just to clarify, this post is about adjusting mid-session, not mid-set. Meaning, we just finished a few sets and are planning to keep playing more.
Then just say, "I've been playing over my usual speed tonight and I think the game is pretty close to fair. Let's continue this way for a while or we can play again another night. I don't feel I'm really ahead enough to adjust."
If that's the truth, all the better.![]()
Being straight out honest is your best best. Just deny their request to adjust the bet or spot, unless you want to, but don't feel an obligation to have to do it regardless of how bad you may be beating them. They can choose to keep playing the same, or choose to quit - their choice. There is nothing out of line about that, and if they wish to throw a tantrum, that's not your problem.Hypothetical Scenario:
1. Your gambling with somebody who isn't your close friend or a regular opponent.
2. Your winning the session considerably but you aren't stealing.
3. You want the guy to quit so you can leave with the cash.
4. Your opponent insists that he deserves a spot and makes a good point about how he only won X amount of games in the past X sets.
How do you turn down the request without being a total a-hole and having them throw a tantrum before leaving?
I can see where it would matter if a person "wants or needs" the other player's money.
Rake