Yeah I get it. The loud annoys me sometimes. But after playing in a couple 3C tournaments where I was in the pediatric division, I realized some of it is just the inability to adjust hearing aids. Like a guys phone is going off at 97 db and he has no idea. 3 guys are yelling at him to shut the phone off and he yells “I can’t hear you I forgot my hearing aids today.” After more minutes of yelling and pantomime he says Oh, my phone is ringing, but can’t shut it off. Then they call back. I called these the Eartrumpet Open. But some of the old guys have passed. So as I get older I get a little more tolerant. But they will drive you nuts sometimes.
And when I see a guy in his ‘80’s back at the pool hall trying to get back out after heart surgery or something, I hope I am there missing balls at their age. So I agree, but on the other hand pool is tremendous because of the social aspect combined with having to stand, bend over, and concentrate and think a little. I hope to be among those old coots who are annoying and sort of DGAF.