Nick B said:
...Many a member was sorry to see Jimbo gone. In the end it was his choice. His actions put into motion a inevitable end. Anything else is simply not honest. Your actions ended in a comparable finish.
My first experience in posting on the Internet was RSB NG. It was a hellish place for me to learn about forum culture, but I got a crash course in it very quickly. Today, I try to ignore the flames, but it is difficult to do so when a poster targets you personally, stalks you in threads, and what is worse is when they post lies in an effort to "flame," especially when the lies are about people that are close to you. This is what Internet bullies do, everything they can to cause you anger and hurt. I mean, should someone be praised for this type of behavior, targeting well-intentioned posters to bring entertainment for readers? I don't think this is entertainment, and if an Internet bully did it to you or your loved one, I am sure you would feel the exact same way as I do.
I, for one, believe that the pool world is that much the better to have mutliple discussion forums and NGs for pool folk to read. I like them all and think each one of them have something to offer, depending on your individual likes and dislikes.
Me personally, I tend to enjoy reading about the pool tournament coverage. Others may be interested in instructional columns or cue sticks. This forum here at AzBilliards has multiple subforms with a variety of pool-related topics to pique one's interests, as do the others.
I post on the Internet because I enjoy learning from others as well as sharing what little tidbits I have to offer. Some posters, however, seem to receive enjoyment when they bash well-intentioned posters with lies and often cruel, mean-spirited words. They get their kicks from doing this, and even though everyone says you're supposed to ignore them, that is sometimes not an option when it comes to Internet bullies.
I have had my boyfriend's pool game and personal life ripped apart by an Internet bully, and the only reason for doing so was to target me. To allow an Internet bully to spew mean-spirited words, oftentimes lies, to provide entertainment for the readers is something that I will never understand. I tend to participate in the pool-related forums that do not tolerate this type of forum behavior, I would like to think that the majority of readers feel the same as I do, but to each his/her own.
Thank goodness, there are many pool discussion forums and NGs for us all to enjoy. I visit them all when time allows and have benefited with the bits of knowledge I have gained. I would like to think that this is the whole purpose of the pool-related forums. The more the merrier, I say, and I'll keep coming back to the ones that I enjoy.
JAM