A message from Emily Duddy to all pool players

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I don't really understand what the major problem is here?? Is she offended that people don't agree with her and blow smoke up her butt pretending she is better than she is? She is not a champion speed player, neither are the other girls. They may all have talent, and are on their way, but they aren't there...YET.

I love the female pool players. They are much more courteous than their male counterparts. I have bartended during many tournaments for both genders, and it isn't even close which one is more fun to put on. But, at the same time I would never try to act like the play at the tournaments is even comparable! My poolhall has had many of the top 20 females play in the Ladies Spirit tournaments, and though they are wonderful to be around they just for some unexplained reason don't play as good as the males do. As someone previosly stated, there are male shortstops in most big cities that would beg any of them to play except maybe one or two.
And despite all this *****ing and moaning, most of them know it. I've watched many of them turn down action, or ask for weight against local shortstops(and never match up at all). And, I'm talking about top 10 girls, who are known supposedly for action.

Please don't take me wrong, I don't know any of the 3 ladies in question, but I really just didn't get why she was so mad. And feel like you shouldn't call people haters for having a sense of reality. JMHO

I agree with this hater. Lol. J/k.
 
i have to question your sense of reality if you think even Jenn isnt 'there' She is currently ranked 8th in the WPBA with only 2 Americans, Monica and Jeanette ranked higher. She won a Predator Pro event beating J Sossei and Tony Robles in the process. She is in the top 99.9% of female pool players on earth. She is 'there and she will more 'there' tomorrow-bet on it.
 
If I am wrong about her speed then I am wrong. But beating someone in a tourney once doesn't make you better. Would she gamble with Tony or J any where close to even? I doubt it , but I could be wrong. I am by no means hating, or belittling her speed. I don't care how she plays. She has put in a lot of time, loves the game, and does her best to promote it....more power to her. I just stated my opinion about the speed of female poolplayers.

And let me clarify, when I say champion speed, I mean the robot speed of Efren, SVB< Dennis O, or any of the top male players. In which she (nor me) ain't even close.

If the separation of genders in pool ended right now....pretty much none of the female players could make a living other than endorsments. I can't either, that's why I work my ass of everyday, and barely have time to play. But yet I still play better than alot of them.
 
If I am wrong about her speed then I am wrong. But beating someone in a tourney once doesn't make you better. Would she gamble with Tony or J any where close to even? I doubt it , but I could be wrong. I am by no means hating, or belittling her speed. I don't care how she plays. She has put in a lot of time, loves the game, and does her best to promote it....more power to her. I just stated my opinion about the speed of female poolplayers.

And let me clarify, when I say champion speed, I mean the robot speed of Efren, SVB< Dennis O, or any of the top male players. In which she (nor me) ain't even close.

If the separation of genders in pool ended right now....pretty much none of the female players could make a living other than endorsments. I can't either, that's why I work my ass of everyday, and barely have time to play. But yet I still play better than alot of them.

You' ve set the bar a bit high then. If the women have to beat Orcullo and Shane in back to back races to 100 to show they can play that aint gonna happen? The top women in no sport that i know of can beat the top men. They may come closer in pool than other sports i dont know. But being above 99.9% of women on earth and and 95% of men players is a pretty damn strong accomplishment.
 
No disagreement her, just clarifying my definition of champion speed. but in the same respect it is the statement they they are "great players" that some disputed, and everybody's definition of what a "great player" is, can be very different. I wish them all well, and hope they all become champion speed. I'd much rather watch them, than listen to Earl whine! lol...

well enough of this for now, i am gonna go attempt to "play pool" now! Don't want to be someone only stuck behind the keyboard! lol
 
Guys,mr instroke anyone who will read this..emily is an amatuer who plays good..
Borana is an amatuer who also plays good
jen is a ranked wpba pro who is/was a model and a player long before emily or borana showed up.
Jen hasnt posted because she shouldnt have to,are you all so goofed up that you cant read?
Emily can think over her head or call it being positive all day thats awesome for her.
But stop lumping them together because theyre all in nyc.
This is not meant to detract from emily or borana..just leave the 3rd one out she had no dog in this fight
 
no offense meant.

Guys,mr instroke anyone who will read this..emily is an amatuer who plays good..
Borana is an amatuer who also plays good
jen is a ranked wpba pro who is/was a model and a player long before emily or borana showed up.
Jen hasnt posted because she shouldnt have to,are you all so goofed up that you cant read?
Emily can think over her head or call it being positive all day thats awesome for her.
But stop lumping them together because theyre all in nyc.
This is not meant to detract from emily or borana..just leave the 3rd one out she had no dog in this fight

Sorry if it seemed like i clumped them together, i tried to state that I didn't know any of them, and really wasn't speaking of them directly, just the difference in the speed of men and woman.

i live in central Fl, and will probably never see any of them play in person.
 
I've read her post twice and don't see where she is objecting to being viewed as a sex object. Its quite obvious that much of her promotion is based on her sex appeal. Why shouldn't it be?

No one cares about that. What's asinine about her post is the implied charge of sexism toward her "haters," while posing half nude on a pool table. I don't mind it, she obviously doesn't mind it, but to come here and say all (legitimate) criticisms re her and her game is men hating on women...blows my mind how stupid a sentiment that is, and what a huge cop-out too.

Keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better, but believe me it's not doing you any favors. This attitude must be the result of being subjected to decades of bestselling self-help books, Positive Thinking, your detractors are just jealous nonsense. Not everyone can be a pro, not every child is special, and pointing this out does not make you a hater.

And btw, if any posters are lumping Jen B with Emily and Borona, it's probably because of Emily's first post, where she presumed to place Jen B and herself in the same boat. I do wonder how Jen B feels about this lumpage.

-roger
 
A MESSAGE TO THOSE THAT LOVE POOL, EQUALITY, ENCOURAGEMENT & SUPPORT AND THOSE THAT HATE JUDGES, CRITICS, RAILBIRDS, HATERS, & COWARDS:

I'M SO GRATEFUL TO HAVE MANY FAMILY, FRIENDS AND FANS THAT SUPPORT ME IN MY POOL ENDEAVORS, BUT THERE HAS BEEN A GROUP OF HATERS ON WOMEN POOL PLAYERS THAT HAS NEVER BEEN CALLED OUT. WELL IT'S TIME FOR ME TO CALL OUT THESE NASTY PEOPLE AND ANYONE ELSE THAT WANTS TO BRING PEOPLE DOWN!

OVER THE LAST FEW YEARS THERE HAS BEEN A PATHETIC GROUP OF HATERS & CRITICS ATTACKING WOMEN POOL PLAYERS ON PUBLIC POOL FORUMS, IT IS DISRESPECTFUL AND PATHETIC, IT IS IN POOR TASTE AND IT SYMBOLIZES THE WORST EGO IN THE POOL WORLD. IT TRULY EMBODIES ONE OF THE BIGGEST REASON'S OUR SPORT IS NOT MORE SUCCESSFUL.

The player's that have been attacked the most in these forums are Myself (Emily Duddy), Borana Andoni, and Jennifer Barretta. The 3 of us are great players, we continue to put in the time in on our game, we compete non-stop putting in our own $, and give back to other players, leagues, and charities as much as possible. We also put ourselves out there to further pool. We are not at the top of the ranking's yet, but every great player has a journey to the top. I think we are being scrutinized because we have been business savvy and taken opportunities made possible by our marketability. Well we are in America and that is how it works. The 3 of us are great people, with big hearts, who are generous and kind. We have talent, passion, and a determination to succeed. Yes we have gotten press, but that is because of who we are and what we stand for.

The list of our current titles, rankings, or stats is completely irrelevant. At the moment the pool world is working on becoming consistent, but up until now there is no good system for ranking players that are professional, men or women. The tours are inconsistent and struggling. The only way to help make that happen in the future is by sticking together!!!!

WHAT THEY CRITICIZE IS OUT OF IGNORANCE, JEALOUS, AND SPITE:

1.) They degrade the level of our play when most of them have no idea how we can play or what we are capable of. Maybe they saw a youtube video, maybe they saw one match, maybe they are going based off rankings or stats, maybe they saw one tournament. Whatever the case may be, no one knows the level of someone's game accept the player themselves. I'm so sick of all these critics and commentator's trying to sum up a player's skill level after watching them play one time. Maybe they had a bad or good match or tournament. It's so easy to sit on the sidelines, behind a computer screen or a television and judge. It is true ignorance. JEN, BORANA AND MYSELF HAVE PLAYED HUNDREDS OF TOURNAMENTS, PUT IN THOUSANDS OF PRACTICE HOURS, AND HAVE BEEN PLAYING/COMPETING FOR YEARS AND DECADES. HOW MUCH OF THAT DID YOU HATERS WATCH US PLAY? PROBABLY NONE!


2.) They bash the way we dress, promotional photos, and projects. We don't care if people don't like us or find us attractive. The truth is we are trying to add a new level of marketability to the world of pool. We are trying to push boundaries. We are doing our best to start new projects and to help the pool world grow stronger. But most importantly we are being ourselves and showing the world who we are. Maybe you should try it sometime and come out from behind your keyboard.

AS A POOL PLAYER OR A FAN OF POOL, IF YOU ARE CONNECTED TO THE POOL WORLD PLEASE HELP SILENCE THESE DISRESPECTFUL PEOPLE TOGETHER. THEY ARE HURTING THE SUCCESS OF OUR SPORT. IF YOU ARE HATER WILL JUST PLEASE STOP!

I AM A FAN OF FREE SPEECH AND IF YOU WANT TO START A FORUM ON ANY TOPIC OF YOUR CHOOSING THEN BY ALL MEANS, BUT WHY ARE YOU SO MISERABLE THAT YOU ARE ATTACKING PLAYERS BY NAME AND DEGRADING THEIR REPUTATIONS WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW THEM OR ANYTHING ABOUT THEM. WHATEVER YOU THINK YOU KNOW IS HEARSAY OR YOUR DISTORTED VIEW OF REALITY. WHY DON'T YOU TRY TO GET TO KNOW US FIRST. WE ARE VERY DOWN-TO-EARTH PEOPLE.

BOTTOM LINE IS THE WHOLE WORLD NEEDS TO SUPPORT OTHER PEOPLE RIGHT NOW IN ORDER TO CAUSE POSITIVE CHANGE. THE POOL WORLD WILL NEVER GROW AND BECOME SUCCESSFUL IF WE ARE FIGHTING AMONGST OURSELVES.

www.emilyduddy.com

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Guys,mr instroke anyone who will read this..emily is an amatuer who plays good..
Borana is an amatuer who also plays good
jen is a ranked wpba pro who is/was a model and a player long before emily or borana showed up.
Jen hasnt posted because she shouldnt have to,are you all so goofed up that you cant read?
Emily can think over her head or call it being positive all day thats awesome for her.
But stop lumping them together because theyre all in nyc.
This is not meant to detract from emily or borana..just leave the 3rd one out she had no dog in this fight

I can read. It was Emily who lumped them together, in her OP:

"The player's that have been attacked the most in these forums are Myself (Emily Duddy), Borana Andoni, and Jennifer Barretta. The 3 of us are great players..."
 
i have to question your sense of reality if you think even Jenn isnt 'there' She is currently ranked 8th in the WPBA with only 2 Americans, Monica and Jeanette ranked higher. She won a Predator Pro event beating J Sossei and Tony Robles in the process. She is in the top 99.9% of female pool players on earth. She is 'there and she will more 'there' tomorrow-bet on it.

Top 99% of female players? This is laughable at best as she would be a underdog to pretty much to anyone coming from overseas alone. Also as awesome as it was that she won a Predator stop, I've also watched her play guys beneath her speed & lose so it goes both ways if you want to play up that event.
 
Top 99% of female players? This is laughable at best as she would be a underdog to pretty much to anyone coming from overseas alone. Also as awesome as it was that she won a Predator stop, I've also watched her play guys beneath her speed & lose so it goes both ways if you want to play up that event.

That's 99% of all women who play pool, not just the pros. The point is, no one is doubting whether or not Jen B shoots at a PRO LEVEL.

-roger
 
Top 99% of female players? This is laughable at best as she would be a underdog to pretty much to anyone coming from overseas alone. Also as awesome as it was that she won a Predator stop, I've also watched her play guys beneath her speed & lose so it goes both ways if you want to play up that event.

To be fair all women who play pool are in the top 99.9% of players, male or female. :-)

Funny how the way something is worded makes all the difference.
 
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If I am reading the web site correctly Miss Duddy finished ranked 22nd of 106 players in 2012 and is currently ranked #20 of 106 in 2013... The girl gets my vote...!!!

The attitude on this forum as of late is one of the main reasons pool is in the state it is in... Just sad as I fear the mentality can not be overcome for the better of the game except by a select few. Very sad!
 
Guys,mr instroke anyone who will read this..emily is an amatuer who plays good..
Borana is an amatuer who also plays good
jen is a ranked wpba pro who is/was a model and a player long before emily or borana showed up.
Jen hasnt posted because she shouldnt have to,are you all so goofed up that you cant read?
Emily can think over her head or call it being positive all day thats awesome for her.
But stop lumping them together because theyre all in nyc.
This is not meant to detract from emily or borana..just leave the 3rd one out she had no dog in this fight

Did you even read the original post in this thread -- try reading that first and then correct your post here.
 
That's 99% of all women who play pool, not just the pros. The point is, no one is doubting whether or not Jen B shoots at a PRO LEVEL.

-roger

That is not saying much considering the lack of women who play overall. I don't doubt she should call herself a pro as compared to Emily who at the present time has no business doing so in terms of skillset. This is nothing against her but an indictment on the state of the WPBA as most of those players who are currently ranked are there more so by default over anything else.
 
If I am reading the web site correctly Miss Duddy finished ranked 22nd of 106 players in 2012 and is currently ranked #20 of 106 in 2013... The girl gets my vote...!!!

The attitude on this forum as of late is one of the main reasons pool is in the state it is in... Just sad as I fear the mentality can not be overcome for the better of the game except by a select few. Very sad!

I have never seen Emily hit a ball so I am not going to comment on her speed. If she wants to post a video of her playing rather than pics of her in lingerie, it won't get as many views but should give more insight to the public that she wants to impose her thoughts on to her true ability.

The WPBA is unfortunately pretty much a dead entity with what, 3 tournaments in 2012 and the site promoting a $1500 added event as a WPBA event in 2013. This won't bring out too many of the top players and doesn't give much data for ranking/comparision purposes.
 
These ladies are bringing all of this on themselves. They don't want to be judged on their playing ability alone. They seem just fine with going the Anna Kournikova route.

Let me say that Anna was a great tennis champion despite what most think. She won many doubles titles and was only lacking success in singles due to constant injury problems with her feet. They would kill for her success (except JB).
 
I see...

I have never seen Emily hit a ball so I am not going to comment on her speed. If she wants to post a video of her playing rather than pics of her in lingerie, it won't get as many views but should give more insight to the public that she wants to impose her thoughts on to her true ability.

The WPBA is unfortunately pretty much a dead entity with what, 3 tournaments in 2012 and the site promoting a $1500 added event as a WPBA event in 2013. This won't bring out too many of the top players and doesn't give much data for ranking/comparision purposes.

I didn't realize that the WPBA had fallen as far as it has and that the events are so few. But even so does this mean the ladies have to be able to compete with the men to be considered great players in their own right? Do the other female athletes of other sports have to be able to compete w/ the men to be acknowledged? Golf, tennis, basketball, skiing, swimming, etc. etc... I mean the list goes on and on.

Are male pool players so insecure that even our female players must be put in their place? She may be hot but I can still give her the 7 and rob her... LOL! To me this reaks of a man who can not measure up against other male players and needs some one to be better than... Just saying!

***Remarks are a generalization and are not directed at one in particular... But if you read it and get even a little bit bent about it... Then it probably does apply to you and I am sorry you have to bark at the girls to feel good about your game. Less time on the internet and more time in the practice room and some day you just might be able to play w/ the men and feel okay about it. (Please note major sarcasm in the voice as this only meant in good fun!)
 
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