I remember one team used to cheer, curse and scream when there dude(sl4) would beat our female(sl3) and it made her feel like dirt.
I've seen this scenario happen WAY more than once

Maniac
I remember one team used to cheer, curse and scream when there dude(sl4) would beat our female(sl3) and it made her feel like dirt.
Mutual respect is few and far between. It's become nothing but a clash of egos and oneupmanship.
I've seen this scenario happen WAY more than once!!!
Maniac
I have noticed that there is generally a direct correlation between a players skill & their pool etiquette...
APAers are not the classiest people I've meet, as was demonstrated at our city tournament; God bless them, but most looked like they crawled out from under a rock.
It's inexcusable. These people belong in a bowling leaugue.
All of the stuff you are complaining about is correct, if Pool wants to grow, then a strick set of rules need to be put in place, and enforced.
Being 25 and starting in a pool hall, the apa scene does get alittle annoying. I especially hate the cheering and clapping when someone scratches on an 8. You all point out bad habits and what etiquette should be. A couple of questions though:
1) when did the 'stand at the table and chalk your tip after a miss' start. I hate that, for some reason that really gets under my skin. Not so much when I play, but when my wife is playing. Almost like guys are trying to intimidate her. I don't understand why that goes on in APA.
2) I have a question about sitting by the table:
I usually sit still or if i'm moving around, I do it far away from the table and away from players line of sight. Here's the question, when you are sitting still but your chair is only 6 feet away from the table. Is it proper to move when you are in your opponents line of sight, or just sit like a statue?
LOL, are we talking about APA here?
Again, at our city tournament, our teams were handed out a flier with a dress code that stipulated for men a collared shirt, clean blue jeans or slacks, and dress type shoes.
I am not kidding when I tell you they would have had to throw out the entire lot; the majority had cut off sleeves, tats showing, lewd comment t-shirts, dirty work boots, ripped jeans, and that was the women!
I grew up frequenting poolhalls. I'm talking about REAL poolhalls. The kind with nothing but pool tables. No video games, no jukebox, often not even a bar. I learned what we call "poolhall etiquette" in these places. It was mostly quiet except for the continuous sound of the balls clacking together. When we were in our chairs (opponents at the table) we sat still and quiet. When our opponent missed a shot or left himself in bad shape we got up and shot without any fanfare. When we won, we shook our opponents hand with very little outward emotion save a few grins and maybe a quietly spoken "alright" or two.
What I've been experiencing more and more lately (mostly in APA league play; seldom ever in a tournament) is the outlandish (IMO) theatricals of opposing teams. They hoot and holler at the conclusion of a won game. They cheer and high-five at the end of a won match as if their local pro football team has just scored the go-ahead touchdown in the waning seconds of an NFL game. I'm not just talking about the player here, I'm talking about the whole team. And I'm talking LOUD! I've even had a few teams whoop-it-up on occasion whenever we miss shots (yes, I know the APA has rules against this, and they were told. One time the whooping actually got worse AND louder after they were warned).
What I'm wondering here is, am I a dinosaur??? I mean, has poolhall etiquette changed over the years to where this is acceptable behaviour and I just haven't caught up to the "new" way yet? Don't get me wrong, I believe a fair amout of celebrating is in order after a won game and again after a won match. But it is so loud and obnoxious as compared to the way I came up in the pool world. I never act this way nor do any of my teammates.
Who else has experienced this kind of behaviour and how do you feel about it? Does this happen in your league? Am I right to feel like I do about it or do I need to move on and "get with the program"???
I respect any criticisms and all opinions.
Maniac
For the most part that is true. I know some higher ranked players that still hoot and holler like idiots and talk trash.I have noticed that there is generally a direct correlation between a players skill & their pool etiquette.