It's just good sportsmanship. Why on earth would anyone want to give the impression that they are a whiney little panty waist when they lose? I avoid those people like the plague. Sure, there are times when I'm steaming inside but I would never let the other person see it. Not only is it poor manners, which I don't want to exude, but I also don't want them to have the satisfaction that they got to me.
I was in a tournament one time and I had a thin slice on a 9-ball into the corner. I hit it good and cut it in but the cue ball came back across table and scratched in the side. In my next match I had a similar shot and I told myself to make sure to put enough mustard on it to get it past the side pocket. Sliced it in again and came above the side pocket. The cue ball was *almost* at a standstill when I picked it up and walked back to the break area. The dick I was playing stood up and called a foul on me for touching the ball before it stopped. This was a handicapped tournament and I (A class) was playing a B. Anyway, everyone watching the match couldn't believe that he called a foul on me for that. There was no chance whatsoever that the cue ball was going to get anywhere near a pocket. You should have heard the "Ahhhh" which translates to "WTF". I wanted to punch him in the fukkin teeth for that crap. But, in all fairness, that is the rule and I broke it. I was still fuming though. I set it in my mind right then that I was going to crucify him when I got back to the table. Unfortunately I was so pissed off and so determined to make him my b!tch that I wasn't focusing on the game and I lost the set. I was so hot after losing that I didn't even look at him, I got up, undid my cue, went outside, got in my car and drove home. I still had matches left too.
Unfortunately I got branded that day and it took a long time to get that image off of me. But, I also learned a few things. 1) Don't touch the cueball. Make the 9 and walk away. 2) Concentrate on the game, not the other player 3) Never give that cockbiter the satisfaction.
So, since then I have never lost my cool at the table. And I think I'm better for it too.
MULLY