Looking for advice, or perhaps just some reassurance.
Last night in my league match, my opponent asked if I wanted to "call'em or mark'em" on the eight. I'm never one for ceremony, and if it's ok with them it's ok with me, either way. We went with "call'em".
So we're on game three, I'm on the hill, and my opponent is shooting the eight. I honestly didn't see or hear him say or point at anything, so I asked the two players from his team that we're watching and keeping score. They didn't know, and spoke to him and asked. My concern is that he was down on the ball, though he hadn't begun practice stroking yet, just aiming at that point. He stood up, pointed, and then promptly missed his shot. Yeah, I made the eight next shot, end of match. I told him that it sucked to end his match like that, and thanked him for the match. He is generally a pretty quiet kid, so I couldn't tell if he was pissed at me, or himself, both or what.
I know I was within my rights to ask, and it was his teammates that did the asking. I just felt bad, as it appeared that we interrupted his shot preperation. Was I out of line? I always make eye contact with either my opponent or one of his teammates when I "call'em". He didn't do that with me.
I think I'll start suggesting "marking" from now on, just to skip this stuff. Your thought, you who are soooo much more experienced at this that I?
Thanks
Last night in my league match, my opponent asked if I wanted to "call'em or mark'em" on the eight. I'm never one for ceremony, and if it's ok with them it's ok with me, either way. We went with "call'em".
So we're on game three, I'm on the hill, and my opponent is shooting the eight. I honestly didn't see or hear him say or point at anything, so I asked the two players from his team that we're watching and keeping score. They didn't know, and spoke to him and asked. My concern is that he was down on the ball, though he hadn't begun practice stroking yet, just aiming at that point. He stood up, pointed, and then promptly missed his shot. Yeah, I made the eight next shot, end of match. I told him that it sucked to end his match like that, and thanked him for the match. He is generally a pretty quiet kid, so I couldn't tell if he was pissed at me, or himself, both or what.
I know I was within my rights to ask, and it was his teammates that did the asking. I just felt bad, as it appeared that we interrupted his shot preperation. Was I out of line? I always make eye contact with either my opponent or one of his teammates when I "call'em". He didn't do that with me.
I think I'll start suggesting "marking" from now on, just to skip this stuff. Your thought, you who are soooo much more experienced at this that I?
Thanks