You are supporting him by coming on and saying things about how he'll get his cue back and it'll be perfect.
How does that help the OP get the cue back?
Thanks for calling Mr. Showman. If you would have simply written that, I would have liked it much better.
It is a simple thing, when things go wrong you don't tell them how much better they are going to be afterward. When a friend gets served with divorce papers, you don't tell him how much happier he'll be after...even if he is going to be happier.
Essentially what you told the OP with your post is that it's all going to be awesome...when in fact it never will.
If this were done with me, I would never be able to separate the cue from the memory of this incident. I would get the cue I loved back, see every flaw and hate the cue. Maybe that is just me.
People can be so understanding that it is amazing. Business people should learn from this. If the cuemaker in question had quoted a realistic time, the OP wouldn't be angry. If the cuemaker had called the OP when the original date came and explained that it would be longer, the OP probably wouldn't have been angry.
But, the fact is that the cuemaker in question didn't do that. He avoided contact. He did, in the eyes of the law (regardless of what Alstl thinks) steal the cue. He had this man's money and possession past when he agreed to have it and then refuses to return it. That is theft.
What does any of what you are talking about have to do with solving the problem?
I dont know who you are. I'm guessing by join date and post count the account is a retread or second account. So while your in depth analysis is fascinating it provides not one single new thing to the discussion. Everyone I have seen post, including John, agrees he is in the wrong. Why you and others feel the need to continuously keep making the case for him being wrong says more about you than John.
The OP will get his cue back. The work will be perfect and I'm sure he will have no problem flipping it at all. It sucks it took this long and he had to go through all this but he came out in public about it to force a resolution. Thats whats going on now. Why you give any kind of shit about what I say or do is beyond me.