Prayer said. Luckily it is contained in the prostate. By the time mine was caught it had gotten outside the prostate into the margins. That was way back in 1995. Cancer came back late 98 and I had 39 days of radiation, which is normally the next step after having had surgery. Came back again in 2001 and I have been on Lupron injections ever since. That is 18 yrs and I feel great. I'm sure that you and your brother will have many, many good times ahead of you! Make the most of them.