Don was in my shop this week. I got just a few of the details from the 'other side'.
I'm not writing this to pick sides or even to offer my opinion on the matter.
The fact is, I wasn't personally involved in any of this.
Neither were any of you with the exception of the OP.
Judgement seems to have come easily for some of you.
I don't think that jury-duty would be your strong suit.
Don is a good man and he has a good heart.
Many of you may have done business with him and been pleased in doing so.
This thread has come to the point where it's no longer just about Don & the OP.
It's now about the AZ community as a whole and how it treats an issue with limited
information and the disregard of the consequences that careless accusations can bring.
Lynch-mob mentality is not justice.
KJ
I understand and respect your support of your friend. I would be the same way. I also agree that Don is a good man with a good heart. That is not what is put into question here.
I believe Don feels I have misled him and pulled him in 15 different directions. Some of that is true. But it was done to make me a satisfied customer. I never once asked Don to do something without me offering compensation. Don wrote to me in an email that I called him a liar. I never called him a liar. What I did do was question and show concern about the Gus when Barry confirmed that he did not refinish the Gus. I have spoken to several dealers of Gus cues and the average price difference of a cue not refinished by Barry is about $1,000. If I have information from the Barry that he did not refinish the cue, why should I lose roughly $1,000 in value?
I then tried to work with Don on a resolution. The Showman I traded was sold in less than 30-45 minutes of my deal with Don. Before I moved forward I felt it necessary to establish a value on the Gus. Don placed an $8,500 value on the Gus at that time. I offered Don $500 in return of a successful transaction. I told him that I really wanted a Gus and asked if he had any others. He said that I would not want it because the other Gus he had was refinished by Rick Phillipi. He was right, I didn't want that. Of the cues he emailed me pictures on I chose 2. The first was a Barry Szamboti cue for $6,000 and the other was a Bill Schick cue for $1,500.. I accepted his prices as he presented them. That totaled $7,500. I asked for a $500 bank check or money order to complete the deal.
When I received the cues, the bank check or money order was not included. I immediately contacted him to ask where it was. He said he thought I was going to send him $500. We talked out and he was mistaken. No harm, no foul at this point. He said he a few deals in the works and he would send it out within a few days or weeks. To me this was long, but I said OK. Later on in the day I inspected both cues. I discovered the Barry had a warped shaft. I sent an email to Don telling him of my displeasure of him sending me a $6,000 cue with a warped shaft. The reason I emailed was that in my opinion, it was too late to call his house.
That night I received information about the Barry from the previous owner that he disclosed the warped shaft to Don. I also received information that Barry agreed to refinish the Gus. I had a good friend call in a favor to Barry on my behalf. Don emailed back that he would pay for Barry to make a new shaft for the cue. I called Don on the phone, to discuss getting the Gus back and for the purpose of Barry doing the refinish that I would pay for. I said that I would pay him $300 for shipping to compensate him for his time and cost. He agreed.
The morning of July 4th he emailed me to let me know he was done. He mentioned that I called him a liar and he was tired of being run around by me. I started to get upset that he told me that I had to deal with the warped shaft on my own. I was even more upset when he told he was not sending my $500. I interjected and said it will now be $1,000 because this was not a successful deal. I used curse words and his wife started to get upset. And the rest is now history.
Anybody can believe what they want. That is not for me to decide. The facts are this:
Gus ($8,500) minus Barry ($6,000) minus Schick ($1,500) = $1,000
Barry shaft = $375 shipped
He owes me $1,375 in cash no matter which way you slice it.
I offered to compensate him to get the Gus back but he backed out of that deal. That would have put $300 in his pocket and this would not be what it is.
It has been 18 days as of right now since he has contacted me.