I hear ya!! Some of us do not have the luxury of these ridiculous waiting lists. The sad part is....I wanted the cue to actually PLAY with....imagine that! No closet queens in my reality, I play with what I buy. I can tell you it's very disheartening when you're waiting on your turn, only to see others passing you by....and listing their cues immediately for sale, looking for the flip/profit.
Like I said, in my mind, it is definitely an integrity issue. If they are willing to do this to me, then what else are they willing to do?
While I can understand your frustration, it's not like this is the only industry where money gets you preferential treatment.