I wasn't going to add to this post till I read Ray Poitra's post here. Firstly who are you to talk about only one side of the story being considered. When the committee voted I had talked to you Ray, two days earlier and assured you there would be no incident at your event. You in turn told me we were good then and two days later, only two days before event started I get the call about not being allowed to play. Never once was I asked my side of the story!!!
Secondly I posted on FB two weeks prior about my anger with one certain individual. Like I said I did it on FB because I had every right to be angry and express myself about the happenings that brought this to be in the first place
Thirdly there were no threats after conversation as you stated. Matter of fact I was on the phone making a lunch date at your tourney with the very person I had the conflict with when I received the call. We were over it and putting it behind us as we had a long standing friendship prior to that and I know him to be a good person, was more than willing and happy to let it be.
Fourthly the previous year I was made to wait almost 7 hours to play my first match because my opponent was still in final four of the 9 ball event. Only to find out the other 3 people in the same predicament were sent to rest and told to come in at 8 am to play those matches before the Saturday 9 am start time, which would have been fine for me. Yes I said I would wait and not to worry but never dreamed it would be 7 hours. That is a long time, especially when I was nearly the only single parent there with my two boys, this caused a lil problem as u might imagine, not an excuse but it didn't help my performance at nearly 2 am when I finally played!!!
I also waited a month in which time I contacted you approximately 3 tomes a week and each time was told or promised it was being handled! Which didn't actually happen till I posted on AZ!!! Coincidence? I think not!!! I think now you did it just to save face not because you always try to do the right thing. The right thing would have been to stay the hell out of my personal issues and trust me when I assured you after a 20 plus year long trouble free relationship, that there would be no issues! I have never done anything bit support this event from the 2nd year it was held. You were still sour about me getting mad about the 7 hour wait the previous year and mentioning it in some chats last year. This was personal and it was based on the fact that the guy I had the beef with was practically a local. Last year I spent nearly $2k in your Calcutta as I have many times over the years! You say people were not gonna come if I played....kinda funny when I received hundreds of messages of support in the previous two weeks, because the situation that happened to spark all this was immoral, unethical, and wrong in every way. False accusations were slung at me in front of family and friends, including my 12 and 7 year old boys! I had every right to be upset! However I did react very harshly and probably inappropriately, which I also stated publicly with an apology for the severity of my reaction, I will never apologize for the reason it happened! Anyone who knew or witnessed the events of two weeks earlier knew I was not only right, but I was vindicated instantly. Bottom line is it was none of your damn business and you never once cared to get my point of view!!! I have every text and email and Facebook post saved to ensure I would not be misquoted or judged one sidedly, yet it happened. What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty? In 20 plus years I never gave cause for you to think I would cause trouble at your event, my word should have been sufficient! Paint this how you want but you all were unfair from the start to the end, the end which didn't come until I came on this forum telling what happened. Without that I don't believe I would have ever been paid! How do you even begin to justify the way any of this was handled? It was tainted from the get go!!! Now to say I will never be allowed back, WOW, obviously no one involved wants to look me in the eye knowing how out of bounds you all acted!!! That is fine with me, it a least have the guts to tell the truth about what and why it happened! You all screwed a long time supporter and you are rightfully ashamed, that is the truth and we all know it, I beg you to say different!!! If u choose to deny this as fact know that I will go out of my way to put you on front street in front of God and everyone. Your decisions are yours but at least be willing to be accountable for them!!!
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