Since its obvious you didn't know who gave her your number, why mention that you have an idea? And if you asked my husband if he gave your number to her, and he told you no, then its no. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. He is a man of his word, and for you to imply otherwise here on a public forum even after he told you to your face that it wasn't him is pretty shitty. (And to accuse me is even shittier! How dare you.) He is highly regarded as an honest man in the Austin pool community. Just because you say it here first on the internet doesn't make it true. And if he tells you he didn't know anything about it, he didn't. Neither of us stalk the AZB forums every day. He didn't know about it until he heard you talking about it at G-Cue on Sunday. I was at home, and I hadn't heard about it until I got a phone call from someone about it on Sunday, but the forums were down and I wasn't able to read this entire thread until late yesterday afternoon.
And lets set the record straight. My husband was not defending Bonnie, he plainly told you that you probably shouldn't have brought it out on the internet and should have just tried to straighten it out yourself. He's been gambling probably twice as long as you've been playing pool. He's been airballed many times, but he works things out with his opponents, he doesn't slam them in a public forum. He was only offering advice, not sticking up for anyone.
Yes, Bonnie is my friend, but since I wasn't actually present when the incident happened, it doesn't do me any good to add any commentary that I do not know first hand. Do I think she is a liar? No. Do I think you are a liar? No. Do I think there may have been some massive miscommunication and things handled differently on both parties part? Most definitely!
As for the rest of your comment about Ray, take that up with him. That's none of my concern. And how do you know who knows Bonnie well enough and who doesn't? How do you know how long some of us have known her? You've only known her the few months she's been here, and others have known her for years.