I've thought about that question many times in my effort to enjoy the game. To some degree, I can't put my finger on it. This may be as close as I can come to explaining it, even to myself.
My game is a "night and day" kind of thing. I can't relate to how others find their stroke, but for me, I need to find that far away place of "dead stroke" to enjoy pool. In fact, I need to find that place to care enough to play better than a beginner!
I need to be immersed in that world that is somehow able to shut out the entire outside world around it in order to truly enjoy pool.
I find little gratification in pocketing any one difficult shot and making position on the next. Rather, I need to find that zone that so deeply encompasses me, that the rest of the world around me can be exploding and I don't have a clue it's happening.
9 ball doesn't allow enough contiguous time at the table for me to fall into that zone. As I said, I can't speak for how others find their true speed. Maybe it comes faster for others, maybe others don't need that feeling I'm speaking of to enjoy pool. I don't know, I only know that 9 ball doesn't do it for me.
Don't get me wrong, I'm no world beater. I only play, as I said about 3 times a month or so. I can and expect to run 30s and 40s regularly and love the 50s and 60s when they come. Then I'm in that great place that makes pool enjoyable for me.
9 ball .... I can't get into it. Banging balls around, paint by number layouts ... I don't know, but honestly, I'd like to like it. I just can't make myself focus or care enough about it to concentrate.
It's crazy, I know ... but if I had to explain why I don't like the game, that's about as close as I can come to explaining. Getting up, sitting down, back and forth, there just isn't time enough for me to find dead stroke and that feeling that makes pool worth playing.
I have a GC at home. If I have an opportunity to play someone that may come over to visit and they are not really players, I get no enjoyment out of going down to the basement to play. I actually find it boring. Dunno, can't explain it. :shrug:
and that sir is why my pool table sits in my living room ! one must have priorities !
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