OK, Rick. You got me here. You frequently mention your father on here and I assume that you're talking about him as your hero. So I'm publicly apologizing to you for using that word.
I understand well the father/son relationship and how special it can be. If anybody knows me well, they know that I have a son and until he left home we were essentially tied at the hip ever chance we got. We were always seen together at the poolroom, US Opens, DCC, SBE, etc.
He's now out in the real world making a living and doing well. Now that I'm usually solo at these places, countless people come up and ask "how is Junior doing" and say "he's a good boy". I love that boy!
Again, I'm apologize.
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Duke,
I can certainly accept your apology & hope we can come to a civil meeting of the minds & do away with any hurtful vengeful retaliation that is probably due to miscommunication, misinterpretation, or whatever. It's a waste of energy that can certainly be put to much better use.
Open minded discussions can certainly be good. We're all really on the same side in one way or another. The specifics that we agree or disagree on are really just side items.
There is more than one way to stroke the ball, more than one way to play the game, & more than one way to
aim or target the ball, just as there is more than one way to Live One's Life.
That said... I was not thinking about my Dad when I made that post. I admire, respect, & Love my Dad just as I Love my Wife, my 'Children', my Grandson, Other Family Members, my Friends, my Acquaintances, ETC.
Yes, my Dad gave me much but the word 'Hero' holds a different meaning to different individuals. Dads & Moms all over the world are 'heroes' when they give up of themselves for the sake of their children or for one another.
Sacrifice denotes hero. "Greater Love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends."
It's not so much the words one uses that matters but instead the intention behind the words that one uses.
I certainly can accept your apology.
I appreciate & thank ALL military personnel as I know the True Sacrifice that so many many of them make for the rest of us. So so many of them truly belong to the Family of Heroes as CJ implied.
It seems you've had a great relationship with your son & from the comments you relay from others it would seem that you did a very good job in raising him. You've both been very Blessed.
There was another 'Son' that had a very good & special relationship with
His 'Father' & when asked by His 'Father', He laid down not only His physical life for others, but His Spiritual Life too. His last words spoken as a living human being were, 'Father'...into Your Hands, I commend My SPIRIT.
Sorry for the retrospect, etc. & the long way round to letting you know of Whom I was thinking when I referred to 'my Hero'. But... the topic here was not really pool related.
Sincerely, All of the Best 2 You & Yours,
Rick