First year or two I was very unsmooth and often broke a cue stick to get to the door! A house stick was $12 and I kept a twenty in my shirt pocket to throw on the bar or counter on my way out so I was usually welcome back when I tested the waters in a few weeks or months. First thing I did going in a place was buy a drink for the bouncer or biggest guy in the place, I wanted them on my side or at least not on the other side! Bouncers I told if trouble started I was late for the door and just please don't get between me and the door.
A cue usually made a loud noise when it snapped and before people realized it wasn't a pistol shot I was well on my way to the door with the big end in hand. A friend of mine was an oilfield roughneck, 6'5", a big ol' boy. First time he was with me and we led a parade to my vehicle he freaked a bit. I considered that kinda normal! I realized I needed to clean up my act and I did. It is one thing to make a score and not be able to go back, another to be welcome over and over. I realized that you can only kill a sheep once but you can shear them many times.
I tried to be welcome to come back and got pretty good at it. People like Scotty Townsend not only got people to bet more than they ever had, he had them giving him a friendly escort out and an invite to come back anytime! He not only made a living on the road, he was a "star" everywhere he went! Most of the road players were somewhere between the two of us. They knew how to get in, get the cheese, get out.
One thing to do is to go in a place and simply say you are the best there. If you take their money then you can say you told them you were the best when you walked in! If you go to JoeyA's website you can find the story of when UJ Puckett stepped into the haunt of big time players for a hundred miles around. He threw a small satchel on a table or maybe emptied it on the table. "Fifteen thousand, any of it or all of it!" You could have heard a mouse fart!
I wasn't really a road player but I did travel a week or two here and there over the years. It is a feeling like no other to travel alone and step into the door of strange places. Are you going to make a nice friendly score and go on? Are things going to get rowdy before you can make a score, maybe afterwards? Funny thing, there is rarely any doubt you can make a score. If they first player or two they throw at you isn't their best they are gonna drop a dime and get him so the only question is do you play their best after you have a little buffer of their money or not. Either way you have to be able to win a lot more often than you lose. Most had road expenses and expenses back home so you had double expenses biting on your bankroll all of the time.
If I got beat I just moved on to the next place. I knew the odds were weighted my way in the long run. It didn't take a great player to hit the road, a "B" player or better could get it done. As Fats might say, it is the smarts that keep you going. While you hear about can't quit winner there is often a time to get off the pony. Losers are building a head of angry steam and the people around the table might be getting angry seeing their local guy getting beaten. A smart railbird might see more than the guy in the grease. One of the big reasons I liked to play by the game, you could drop a few games before quitting, you can't drop a few sets and come out ahead! I also liked to tell people well in advance that I had to leave at a certain time, then winning or losing I pack it in then. If winning I always told them I would be back and give them a chance at their money giving a time or time and date when it wasn't going to be that day. Sometimes I even came back!
One thing, I always went with instincts when alone or vastly outnumbered. Often the vibe of the place, not anything in particular said or done, told you it was time to get out of Dodge as cleanly as possible! Sometimes everybody was reasonably happy and you knew when it was time for leaving it would be fairly cool.
I had a chance to go on the road with a young Danny Medina long ago. I had a good thing going with my daytime activities and passed. I can't help wondering how my life would have been had I went down that path. The urge was strong when I was young, single, and free to travel myself but I eventually threw away his number just to get rid of temptation.
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