Agreed. When a poster knowingly lies to cause harm to someone they should be banned for at least a significant period of time if not permanently depending on the exact circumstances.
I agree. Thing is how do you know what's a lie and what isn't? Answer: You don't so that's why accusations need to be sandboxed and PROVEN to the admin's satisfaction before being allowed to be public in my opinion.
There is zero problem with speculation as long as it is clear that it is speculation.
And here is what has in fact happened to me. Someone posts a speculative NEGATIVE comment about something or someone in the business, not me. I happen to know the 100% truth of the situation because I was present. I post that statement refuting the speculation. Then I am attacked and called a liar and more and argued with over it.
Do you see the dynamic at play here? The person who truly KNOWS NOTHING but who instead has only a speculation will defend their position AS IF IT IS FACT. To the point that they start defaming me over it.
Hell I even had a guy call me a liar when I tried to explain how Instroke cases were built. He tried to tell me how they were built EVEN THOUGH HE HAD NEVER TAKEN ONE APART.
John, no regular nobody Joe Schmo would still be around after all you have done. They would have been lifetime banned 18 times over. It is possible that they sometimes don't let things slide with you that they would let slide with others but that is because of your history and is certainly understandable and reasonable. But when it comes to what they do about it, this is where you get ALL the special treatment. You have carte blanche to do whatever you like for life. Just take your little slap on the wrist and then you can come back shortly and do it again. Nobody else would get that kind of latitude for such a prolonged period. Nobody.
Again how many times have a I been banned? Do you know? How many times this year? For what? Examples?
It's really all about me isn't it?
You're not willing to look at the other guys and demand that they be banned. You're not willing to go through threads and find the times that they should have been banned long before I blew a gasket. You say you want fairness but so far I don't see you actually practicing what you preach.
Those who HAVE called out the antagonists were ignored. I was called a cock by one guy, called a liar by others. That's name calling pure and simple. Have you EVER ONCE called for them to be banned? Not that I have seen.
I don't think Mike was as big of a player as you either in the impact or in how many people know of and about him. But in any case, Mike was the one guy that might, and I say might, have given you a run for the money in how much they pushed it around here. Dude had a flagrant disregard for the rules and for the ownership's wishes that was equal to and possibly even surpassing yours. They had no choice but to get rid of him. Plus he didn't beg and sweet talk as much as you do to try to be allowed back on after he was banned. You are just defiant in between bannings and then kiss butt and try to smooth it over while you are banned. He was defiant all the time...lol.
You think I kiss ass while banned? You really need to STOP thinking that the world actually IS as you believe it to be. Trust me pal Mike and Jerry are FAR MORE happy when I am not banned because I don't hold ANYTHING back when voicing my displeasure at the way things went down.
Give me a break. Like yourself, Mike created his own problems. He was relentless in his spam, instigated most of his issues, and couldn't have cared less about the ownership's wishes or rules. He only cared about himself and doing what he wanted to do. He instigated and created what you call his trolls. Trolls weren't the problem, Mike was the problem. I know you don't see it but you create your own problems as well and the similarities are striking.
Anyway, I didn't want to go round and round with you and will probably leave it at this. I was only curious to know if you realized how much special treatment you got, and true to form you turned it into something much bigger than it needed to be. I know you absolutely positively must have the last word always and forever 100% of the time (which is a big part of how you cause all the problems for yourself), so have at it and have the last word. I wish you the best, truly.
You don't wish me the best. If you did then you would have been fair in your criticism by calling out the antagonists.
Trust me pal I get no special treatment. In fact I am subject to be banned just for having this discussion on general principles.
But again if you were fair and actually analyzed the threads you would see that I am 100% right, others attack and defame and name call long before I do and don't get chastised or banned for it. If any chastising comes then it's LONG after the deeds are done.
That's just exactly how it is. As for the last word, if you say something I disagree with I will respond. That's how a discussion works. I honestly don't understand you people's hangup with how long a discussion goes and WHO has the last word. The last word is when everyone has had their say and no one has anything else to say.
I find that people who use the "he has to have the last word" insult are themselve guilty of being the ones who SEEM to really want the last word. Otherwise why care? For example I don't care if we keep the discussion going for 100 more posts - except that you probably won't start dealing in FACTS which would stop the discussion cold.
Instead you prefer the nebulous world of speculation where you can spout your "stats" as if they are fact with no proof to back them up. Go get At Large and make a spreadsheet detailing the times I have been banned and the reasons with thread links and then compare them to the rules broken in those threads BY OTHERS before I got banned.
Write the words BANNABLE OFFENSE next to each rule violation. I am 100% sure that most of the time, it wasn't me who started with the name calling, defamation, ad hominem attacks, etc... And I will BET SUPER HIGH ON THAT if anyone thinks I wont.
I will bet every penny I own, all my cases, any property I have, all of it.
You only see what you want to see. Deal in facts and things look very differently.