That 380 auto has all the fire power I need. I use standard hollow point rounds with a standard load, nothing special nothing fancy. Like I said HU, that's all the fire power I need for protection a 380 will get the job done.
Things can vary. Summertime, tee shirts, and the right choice of bullet and I put a lot of faith in a 380. It is a nine MM and many police and militaries relied on it for decades before the 9MM parabellum pretty much took over when it became NATO's standard round. Come wintertime, I don't put the same faith in a 380 with the danger of thick clothing packing the nose of a bullet and preventing expansion.
Given my druthers I would prefer a .45. The smaller bullets may expand but the .45 doesn't shrink and I am usually carrying the same type of rounds in either. After shooting it a bit I really like the .40 too.
The thing is weight, bulk, and what I will tote. Over the years my carry pistols have constantly gotten smaller and lighter which is why I carry the 380 if I carry now. If I absolutely feel the need to go where I know I shouldn't be, then I step up to the .45. I have shot hundreds of thousands of rounds through a 1911 in practice or competition and I feel comfortable with one. Not to point and hold someone at bay, it is lousy at that. Can't beat it for shooting though!
I try to match whatever the local cops are toting for bullets. "I'm shooting these flying ashcans to be nice. I don't have to shoot a person as many times." Parroting the same things the cops are taught to say.
I don't want to take anyone's life. However, if it comes down to being the shooter or the shootee, no question which position I would prefer to be in. While mostly a bigger is better kind of guy I would prefer a .22 short rimfire to being barefoot!
Hu