A book that helped me to have a more positive attitude towards the game was "The Inner Game of Tennis." There are lots of used copies around. Maybe it would help your teammate....
He is sitting out this season but may try again next season.
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A book that helped me to have a more positive attitude towards the game was "The Inner Game of Tennis." There are lots of used copies around. Maybe it would help your teammate....
He is sitting out this season but may try again next season.
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Who the hell gets beat 10-0 by 'the worst player on the othrr team', and then has the balls to get mad too?
Yesterday my "angry player" stopped by for the first time since the tournament a month ago. I was surprised, he was totally apologetic. He said "I am honest with myself. It wasn't you and I was never mad at you. I am a sore loser. I was mad at myself for losing, the other team because they were jerks and the league operator because he would not take a stand but mostly at myself. I thought I could control my temper but I guess not yet. If I can't play without getting mad I need to not play. I just wanted to apologize to you."
He is sitting out this season but may try again next season.
I thank all of you for the support and your comments.
Sounds like your team mates were a bunch of nits. I've played with guys like that, one year, and switched teams. My team is still competitive, but is a really good group of guys, which I enjoy being around. Winning and having absolutely no fun while doing it, due to too many alpha dog egos, just isn't my cup of tea. I've seen all manner of bullshit in league, mostly from the alpha dog ego crowd. It's always something, but never them. :smile:
I once asked a room owner who ran major tournaments back in the 1970s why he didn't want to have a written set of rules available. His answer was that he wanted the rules flexible and known only to him so he could punish the players who needed to be punished.
Bob, this statement is similar to an incident I had in New Orleans when I was a bartender during BB Kings heyday on Bourbon Street. What they did was this. The bouncer had control, not thru aggression but thru charging at the door. If you looked well dressed especially if ya had a gal with ya, it was $2 a head. If you were marginal it might $5 a head, and if your someone they felt they did not want in their room they would charge up to $20 a head. There philosophy was, if they do pay allot, then they are going to act like they are in a classy place, and be partially broke and not get too wasted. But if you and your gal were dressed to the 10's you got for almost and at times ZERO. It was amazing how well that kept out the riff raff/problems.
A book that helped me to have a more positive attitude towards the game was "The Inner Game of Tennis." There are lots of used copies around. Maybe it would help your teammate.
A book that helped me to have a more positive attitude towards the game was "The Inner Game of Tennis." There are lots of used copies around. Maybe it would help your teammate.
If it's a straight in/one foot from the pocket, which pocket does anybody think he will call?
I'd say your guy is a whiner and he lost fair and square.
I think the spirit of the rules in that league is "Nittiness Rules!" The rules in that league seem to be very explicit. You have to call the pocket in some manner.
If both teams feel that it's a bad rule -- as do most of the people in this thread -- then they should make a written agreement before the match starts that they will play by some other call shot rules, such as the BCAPL rules. If that is not done, you shouldn't be surprised or mad when the other team wants to enforce the rules of the league.
Here's an idea: play slop on everything. Usually people will agree on whether a ball went in.
By the WSR he hit a rail.... He told me the guy should have called no rail but I disagree as the pocket counts as a rail and he "hit" the pocket but I'm not so sure.
How would you all call it?