Many of you seem rather content in your views so please, don't feel as though I'm trying to change them. For several reasons, I feel a need to respond to what you’ve had to say and to further explain my point of view. If anything, so that you may at least know exactly how I feel on the matter and even if you do not agree, to try and understand it.
Using a picture of one of the leading Nazi officers for the purpose of amusement is, in my opinion, insensitive. I am the grandson of a World War II veteran. This man, my grandfather enlisted in the United States Army in his 30s when he was past the age requirements for the draft. He arrived in Normandy D-Day +10, earned five Battle-Stars, The Purple Heart and earned the rank of First Lieutenant. He liberated a concentration camp, saw the atrocities of the war and buried innocent victims, Jews. Atrocities Himmler committed.
I’ve spent a good deal of time in this forum, sometimes for amusement but for the most part, to be part of our great conversation about pool in the hopes that what I have to say might help someone and to perhaps discover something useful for my own game. Without a doubt, it has been a pleasure.
However, this thread has bitten into me deeper than any other, not because of what was initially posted but the reaction to my objection EVEN after an apology was given and accepted. The Santa-reference was meant to be insulting. In response, one poster felt it necessary to tell the board that she found it extremely amusing. I mean, what one finds amusing in private is their own business and I won’t judge people on that but to let the world know is just sad. It shows that we have come full circle. Instead of remembering the Holocaust, we have become desensitized to it. Instead of monitoring our own activity with the fear that words can lead to action, we make jokes of it.
By the way, my sensitivity has not been solely reserved to Jews. I went to Fordham University (New York's only Jesuit school). Prior to a basketball game between us and Columbia University, there were several references made about the church and pedophilia. They used this reference in a rally-cry. Knowing the pride and commitment those Jesuit Priests had in teaching us, I felt honored when they slammed Columbia in the press for making such statements even if it were all in good-fun and for the sake of some good ole’ rivalry. Those priests at Fordham were good people and there was no need to smear them with such dirt.
I know, among friends, I am not always the most politically-correct, either. Nobody is, nor should be. However, Corvette is not my friend and had a derogatory-reference been made to any of you by a stranger, you would react accordingly. The slack that we give our friends does not apply when this is the only encounter we have with someone. “Lighten-up” is not what I owe my grandfather. He didn’t fight in a war, overseas, with a wife at home in hopes that one day, I can laugh at all this. He was willing to die to stop this. I owe him my respect and hoped that my contributions to this board had earned me yours.
I have come to the conclusion that it is simply not worth getting upset over. I’m not leaving mad. I’m leaving because many of you have illustrated that you’re not worth my time.
Happy Holidays