Practicing Alone Is Just Fine.......Think About It.
I enjoy practicing alone because I am my own worst critic......I set the bar height for myself higher than any opponent or practice partner could ever do.......I don't compliment myself over shots missed either....I criticize myself, never praise......Every single time my practice partner or opponent says "Great Try"...."Wow, It looked like it was going dead in." or any other well intended compliment, I cringe.....yes, that's right.....I actually feel a cringe.
The last thing I want to hear is praise or encouragement of any type or a positive acknowledgement over having just missed a shot. I see players do this all the time......Baloney. You compliment success and critique failure or else keep your trap shut. I learned early in life you learn more from your failures than your successes......that's how I see things. So hearing my playing partner, or opponent for that matter, compliment me over a shot I just missed is really bothersome to me. I should have made the shot and if I didn't think it would go in, I wouldn't have even tried......it should have gone in, I expected the ball to go in and I don't get out of my shooting stance until all the balls stop rolling. I need to pay attention to why it didn't go and not some superfluous praise for my efforts. You never win the silver medal in anything because you actually lost the gold.......2nd place sucks, especially when it's 1 on 1 competition.
Praise offered for even the toughest of shots missed is dumb in my book. It's as bad as using the expression "Good Luck" with your opponent at the start of your match. Really now......how freaking stupid is that? Like I really want him to get lucky on some shots that go in when they shouldn't have.......BULLSHIT. I want my opponent to play well but if there's any luck in our match, then let it be mine and not my opponent's good fortune. So I just offer "Play Your Best" and I mean that when I say it. I want their best game and hopefully I can return the favor.
So when I practice alone, I only play 14.1 or else drills.....that's it.....nothing else. And my drills are really demonic......All my buddies quit early because they fail more often than they succeed when they do these drills......it's designed to be this way because when I have mastered one of these drills, I stop and select a different one......I have approximately 14-15 and so the variety keeps it interesting. I never think well of myself on a shot that almost pocketed, regardless of how incredibly difficult the shot may have been....only success matters to me.
Matt B.