My deepest condolences to his family and friends...
I will remember Raist in my prayers.
Myron
I will remember Raist in my prayers.
Myron
Timberly said:Words cannot explain how the story of Raist touched me when Tate posted it awhile back. His courage was second to none and I'll always remember that phenomenal story. The world needs more people like Raist. I'm genuinely mourning his passing but I find solace in the fact that he's no longer in pain and he's no longer relegated to a hospital bed longing to do what he loved to do... shoot pool.
My condolences to his family and his close friends. May he rest in peace surrounded by all the cues and pool tables he could ever want and the ability to play as much as he wants.
Thank you Raist for being such an inspiration.
TATE said:Thank you for the kind words Timberly.
He faced his life and his death with the same courage and matter-of-fact attitude. He was only 33.
To give you an idea of what Raist was all about, I am posting this e-mail. It is painful for me to read it and difficult to comprehend it. He suffered for 9 more months, underwent amputations, and chose to die earlier so that his family wouldn't suffer the financial burden. The last few months he couldn't hold a cue.
Please read this. Raist, if this was meant to be personal, I just can't hold it back. Please forgive me. People deserve to know what you were all about.
March 13, 2006
Hi Chris,
Thanks for the info on the Palmer. this cue grows on me so probably i will keep it.
well AZ is very addictive i would say.. if i would to stay away i doubt it be for too long a period of time.. keke
My health now is more or less stabilised. Frankly i do not know how long more the road is gonna go... when i was diagnosed with bone cancer in mar i was only given 6 months by doctors. they suggested hemipelvectomy which entails hacking the leg off with part of the pelvis. that would gave me an extra 12-18mths. This type of cancer is one of the most potent...most die within 18months. i weighted my options, and noting that i am orphaned from 20, and have no family, only a brother and 2 sisters (they are in their late 40s) with teen kids... i figured that the 100000USD surgery procedure, plus the additional stress of having my siblings taking care an invalid for a year is too much for me. Hence i never went for the procedure, nor chemo. i did some intense radiation though they were only to relieve my pain... i also spent a couple of months in a church retreat recuperating... So far ,apart from intense pain at times at the leg, controlled by ever growing amt of morphine i did alright...
Anyway i cant thing too much now..i keep myself cheerful and indulge in a little cue collecting for my wants..
My love of billiards began when i was 13, and i was pretty selftaught (hence the books) i started playing snooker and when i was 17 i was making 70s breaks. then i took a diploma in electronics and played less n less..its difficult to be good without spending the 4-8 hours daily at the table.. at 21 i joined the navy, and went sailing for 6 years. As pool was more popular at the ports of call i was visiting, i started getting interested in pool... also it was less demanding on technique and practise and sharpness, all which can only be achieved if one spend 8 hours on a snooker player..Pool has only began popularity in 97-98, and i was one of the pioneers playing it in Singapore.. by 2000 there was a pool boom here, and i became one of the better players in Singapore. i achieved pretty decent results in pool tournaments, and got ranked as one of the top 16 players in Singapore.. i also won the 8 ball league in 2002 and was semi in 2003..
i was always pretty vocal with how the whole game was run and i got into the bad books of the association. in a fit of anger i boycotted all state run competitions. i also got barred from playing all pub tournaments in 2003 and 2004 as i was top 16.
i was only allowed to play any pub tournaments late 2004 when i was finally ousted out of the top 64 list...
i would say i am a excellent 8 ball player..though actually 9 ball is more my cup of tea.. i spend many a nights playing money games in dangy poolhalls and sometimes make do with only 1-2 hours sleeps.. in the day time i was a successful sales engineer selling Radars and GPS, and even had the money to drive a heavily mod honda, own expensive cues, and own a private condominium (80% of singaporeans live in public housing estates).. all without any handouts from anyone..
but well things came crashing down in Mar 2005 .. but i managed realign my focus.. now i feel best doing charity work in my free time... and of course..cues..
i am 32 now, everyday is a bonus, and i guess its quality, not quantity of life that matters.. Glad to have known u...
Bgrds
Raist