I like your description of Paypal. I've been screwed by them and I have friends who've been shafted also. I hate dealing with them, but you almost have to have an account to do business on ebay.
James
Yes, sadly, eBay now requires that ALL Sellers take PayPal so I rarely sell on eBay anymore and NEVER anything really expensive ...
In the early years, I sold mostly high-end watches ($4k - $50k) and also sold rare antiques and artwork. PayPal was independently owned in those days and they protected their Sellers ... eBay gobbled-them-up and began bullying their Sellers almost immediately.
Having been a member since 1998 with over $700,00 in gross sales (between 4 accounts), I now see the day coming when I will cease all sales on eBay and just use it as a buying venue.
As for overseas sales, I ONLY accept Western Union !!!